Can any of you knowledgeable people explain to me why it is necessary for a child to be in so much pain during burns dressing changes?
A month ago my DS, 3.5yrs, jumped at my mother just as she was moving a full cup of tea out of his way, and sustained extensive burns.
Many of his dressing changes are still being done under General Anaesthetic, but the few that aren't are truly, utterly awful. Even with oromorph and midazolam he is a terrified, screaming wreck - struggling, panicking and fighting like a wild thing to get away from the nurses.
I cannot believe that in this day and age, in what is apparently a leading Burns Unit, that this is the best that they can do. If I saw someone doing this to an animal in the street I would do everything in my power to stop it, and yet I am expected to hold my poor baby down while this goes on.
The nurses when I question them are full of trite, standard responses, while the leading consultant seems to have had a complete bedside manner bypass. I have had to fight so so hard to get the oromorph and midazolam prescribed for him - as if I didn't have enough to contend with at the moment!
Any info or advice would be so appreciated, I just don't know where to turn to.