Hi
I hope someone here can help just straighten out some thoughts and decisions we are trying to make.
We have an 8 week old girl who today just reach 4kg. She has been formula fed for the last 4 weeks. She has always been sickly during the day, vomiting, (not an incredible amount) a long time after feeds. Also a general feel of being uncomfy. But nothing projectile or endless hours of screaming. She exhibits most symptoms of reflux. But i feel its manageable in the usual ways.
She isn't refusing touch wood, some discomfort after feeding during the day, but nighttimes are pretty smooth.
Secondly. She was born just a little above the 25th centile, dropped about 7% then put it back on very slowly. The first four weeks were a bit of a nightmare breastfeeding. She gained either no weight per week, or gained 60g at most. She was flatlining through to the 2 centile. We then made a decision to formula feed. Over the next 2 weeks she gained 600g. The following week another 200g. Getting back to just under the 9th centile. And this is were the problems begin.
We had been keeping a sickness diary for the doctor as they were worried about reflux and weight gain. I think max she was throwing up was 10ml 4 times a day. Sometimes a little more, sometimes a little less. It was at this point (after gaining) that the doctor said this was reflux and she wants more weight gain. So prescribed gaviscon. 2 days ok, then the pattern of sickness shifted from daytime to evening. After the week (today) we went back and she had gained the same 200g, so was taken off gaviscon and prescribed ranitidine. The doctor was saying she would expect a 'healthy' child to put on 200g, but our baby needs to get back to the 25 centile so needs to put on more weight, like 500g per week.
I just don't feel i want to medicate and this seems a bit of a kneejerk reaction by the doctor. I feel if we need to stop vomiting ranitidine is not the drug to do that, and i don't want to go on domperidone as this appears to be under review by the MHRA.
I was thinking of just going onto anti reflux milk, as if i can stop the vomiting and weight gain is the same 200g it would rule out the loss of food as the issue, then it might lead the doctor down other avenues that could be causing the slow gain.
Or heaven for fend, there isn't a weight issue at all.
A bit long, but just your thoughts on whether this is normal, slightly weird, or i'm going insane would be appreciatedIs their a weight gain issue? should i just try the ranitidine.