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Girl with lots of hair on arms and legs -- what could be the cause?

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Abriata · 11/03/2015 10:28

My niece, age 8, has very hairy arms and legs. Her back is also quite hairy. As she has dark hair, it is very obvious and I think she is becoming very self-conscious. My sister-in-law doesn't seem at all concerned. I think it might be due to a hormonal imbalance and should be checked, particukakry as she approaches puberty (she's been "hairy" since she was very little -- it's not a new development). Does anyone have any idea(s) what might be causing this condition?

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MrsTawdry · 11/03/2015 10:57

Hmm Er...some children are just hairy. Especially dark haired ones. It's none of your business really...if your sister in law is not worried then that's that.

DontDrinkandFacebook · 11/03/2015 11:01

It can be due to hormonal things like polycystic ovaries, and it can be a sign of extreme underweight or anorexia but those things are unlikely to be the case if she's only 8.

Lots of women with an Indian, Arab or Mediterranean heritage (or even if it's a distant part-heritage) have lots of thick, dark body hair compared to northern European or south east Asian women. It's just how it is. if her mother's not concerned then I'm not sure why you should be.

Abriata · 11/03/2015 11:56

Thanks for your replies. I don't share your views that the welfare of a child in my family is "none of my business"... My brother (her father) is concerned and my niece is concerned. She's being teased at school and tries to cover herself -- fine in winter but difficult in summer.
She is not of mediterranean, Arab or Indian background.
I'd like to support my brother and my niece and thus am trying to find out what might be possible causes so I can help steer them in the right direction.

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MrsTawdry · 11/03/2015 15:31

Tell your brother to take her to the doctor? Confused

DontDrinkandFacebook · 11/03/2015 18:20

Exactly. If he's concerned that her hairiness is too extreme and is possibly the symptom of some underlying condition then he can easily talk to the GP about it, and he must know that, surely? Or you know….just google it, like most people would….Not really sure why he needs to rely on you for guidance on this? Confused

Abriata · 11/03/2015 22:22

Thanks, again.
I guess neither if you come from close-knit families where brothers and sisters try to help each other think through various concerns.

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MrsFlannel · 11/03/2015 22:29

I do and I agree with the previous posters! You're asking a question which only a doctor can answer.

Minisoksmakehardwork · 11/03/2015 23:21

Genetics. at least in my case. And I've doomed my 2 dd's the same as dh is rather hirsute himself (we joked about taking shares in immac should we have kids when we first got together). Dd1 (6) and dd2(2) are already both showing signs of inheriting the dark body hair gene from me. Thankfully they are not aware of it yet but it's only a matter of time. Both boys in the other hand have fair body hair.

Anyway, to try and ease some worries... By all means get checked out by a gp. Especially if no one else in the family is particularly hairy. If they are, then helping your niece accept this is who she is is essential.

Whilst it wasn't necessarily the best thing to do, from an early age I wore trousers and long jumpers (even through summer). Finding some pretty, longer length clothes in the short term might help your niece feel less self conscious of herself. Lightweight trousers for school, thin cardi to cover her arms. PE is going to be unfortunately either accepting it or asking if joggers can be worn.

I completely understand how your niece could feel. It is only since meeting my husband and having children that I've been able to relax in my own body more. And even then, I have to shave every other day. Waxing might buy me another day or two where I can pluck random breakthrough hairs out. But then I start looking like a yeti again. Thick, dark hair on legs, arms. Even a 'tache (plucked).

However, what I will insist on is if other children are picking on your niece because of this, it needs stopping now! Your brother has to go into the school and let them know how this is affecting his dd. let her know that it is nothing to be embarrassed about and that she can tell someone if she is getting teased. Whilst it is an extreme, no one would tolerate teasing if it was because of the colour of her skin. Whilst it's a different issue, the feelings left by the teasing and bullying are the same.

GingerCuddleMonster · 11/03/2015 23:35

some people are taller than others

some people are shorter than others

some people are harier than others

it's just the way life is, there isn't always a "medical" reason. Perhaps the mother isn't concerned because she knew female relatives who were hairy so assumes it a inherited. if your brother is that worried, maybe ask him to speak to their gp about it?

meglet · 11/03/2015 23:40

genes. I was tested for hormonal problems as a teen but everything was fine. I'm 'just' hairy.

ItchyOldBint · 12/03/2015 12:29

My DD8 is mixed heritage and gets the darker hair from me. Most of her surface fluff shed within the first two years, but she has a fine covering on her upper back and lower legs. I haven't brought her back hair to her attention, but if, when she's older (teens) it bothers her then of course I'll let her do something about it, but at this age, it's very rarely on show.

She did say a boy at school mentioned her leg hair and I just replied, we all have body hair, but some people's is more visible than others. Her female cousin (9) on the other hand has prominent upper lip hair and gets teased and bullied about it Sad.

I think it's up to the parents in each case to judge whether to act on it. Although I don't agree with grooming or beauty treatments on children, low self esteem and the affects on their adult life are worse. It's a difficult one.

Branleuse · 12/03/2015 12:57

Maybe she is a mammal?

Abriata · 12/03/2015 15:28

Thank you Mini and Itchy for your sensitive and helpful replies.
Assuming there isn't an underlying hormonal cause, I agree the important thing will be for my brother and his wife to try to support their daughter's self-esteem.
Many thanks.

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