Hi All, apologies in advance for the long post!
Am currently worried sick :( I have a 5 1/2 year old son who is just the absolute light of my life. He's always been late in meeting his milestones (sitting up/crawling/walking). He eventually walked at 20mths after taking him for a pair of boots and the shoe lady noticing that he rolled in on his ankles - I then took him to a physio who said he had soft double jointed ankles. This 'soft' ankle issue has always been the excuse for him being slower than his pears.
His behavior is great and he's well liked with lots of friends. He does have some slight development delays at school and has had speech therapy too. All in all though he's 'holding his own' and enjoying school.
Recently my husband noticed that he was walking with his belly stuck out giving him a exaggerated curve (lordosis) I took him to my GP who agreed but said don't worry. I couldn't take this for an answer so he agreed to do some xrays. The xray results came back showing a mild scoliosis (less than 5 degrees) which was a complete shock. Again the GP was dismissive but I insisted on seeking the opinion of an expert so was referred to an orthopedic surgeon. At that appointment the surgeon said that our son had an exaggerated knee reflect and that together with the lordosis/scoliosis and learning/development delays needed investigation by a Pediatric neurologist. So now we're awaiting our appointment at Oswestry. We've gone from noticing his belly sticking out to waiting for an appt at Oswestry in under a month!
We're both scared to death that this could be DMD. Although google is great it's also given us information overload and we're almost diagnosing this ourselves! Do these symptoms point to DMD or could it be something else? What else could it be? I keep looking for other tell take signs like enlarged calves (nope) gowers sign (kind of) and problem with stairs (slow and cautious but manages). Day to day he seems to be improving and to look at him you just wouldn't believe his could have something so severe as DMD but i'm petrified that this progress will plateau and decline
What can we expect at the appointment? I'm conscious of having complex/upsetting conversation with the consultant in front of our little boy who has no idea what's going on or why we/drs keep looking at his body.
I hoping that we'll get there and it'll all be nothing to worry about but at the moment i'm swinging between hope / hopelessness
Probs a bit of a long shot but is there anyone out there who's experienced/experiencing this? Or can off some advise?
Thanks x