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Daughter complaining of sore tummy could this be her monthlys starting

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Mitsi10 · 01/03/2014 20:31

Last month my dd was sent home as she was complaining of a sore tummy
Now she's complaining again leading me to think she's about to start her monthlys
She's been ok all week expect for having a cold and been fine all day just started moaning there

She's 10 so could this pain be her changing as this is my first child and I know all girls start at different times

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Mintyy · 01/03/2014 21:12

It could be. Can you get her to point at where the pain is? If it is high on her abdomen (just under her ribs or near her tummy button) then it probably isn't connected to her periods, but if much lower down, just over her pelvis, then it could well be.

Lots of girls start their periods at 10/11. And you have said she has breast buds, which is probably the first sign of puberty in girls.

Btw, my dd has just turned 13 and started her periods 6 months ago. She has pubic hair, but no underarm hair yet. I don't think underarm hair is an early indicator of puberty.

FiveExclamations · 01/03/2014 21:17

"However, some names are much more specific: “menstruation” is from Old English “mondablot” or “month blood;” in Latin, “menses” means “month;” ... (2); and the term “period” dates back to 1822 meaning “an interval of time”

A History of Menstruation: terms, customs/beliefs, and fashion!

"Menstrual - pertaining to menses," also (in astronomy) "monthly," from Old French menstruel, from Latin menstrualis "monthly," especially "of or having monthly courses," from menstruus "of a month, every month, monthly, pertaining to a month," from mensis "month" (see moon (n.))."

Online Etymology Dictionary

So Menstruation/Menses (essentially "monthlies") predates "periods" so you could argue that "periods" is the term come lately.

To actually answer the OP's question I found this useful, I've found the same information on plenty of other websites too:

How will I know when my periods are soon going to start? from NHS Choices

Signs that your period is on its way are if you’ve grown underarm and pubic hair. Typically, you’ll start your periods about two years after your breasts start growing and about a year after getting a white, vaginal discharge. The average girl will get her first period around 12 years old, but it varies from person to person.

YoureBeingASillyBilly · 01/03/2014 21:25

OP i apologise. whilst i find your choice of word odd, i agree my post wasn't at all helpful and detracts from the point of your thread. i have asked HQ to remove it.

for whoever commented about monthly predating periods- my issue wasn't with which came first.

FiveExclamations · 01/03/2014 21:37

Well my suggestion that "monthlies" might be more valid because it predates "periods" has as much weight as your suggestion that the op should use "periods" as the correct term because in your opinion it's less mealy mouthed.

My motivation was purely to support the op who seemed upset.

InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 01/03/2014 22:17

You can call it whatever you like!
I wouldn't presume it's her periods starting to be honest. If it carries on I would get it checked out by doctor. Could be something completely unrelated.

tess73 · 01/03/2014 22:22

Se has glands in her tummy, if she is unwell (you say she has a cold) it could be that. Dd1(just 10) gets those tummy aches regularly and I also worried the same but it always coincides with other symptoms.

PortofinoRevisited · 01/03/2014 22:35

My nearly 10 yo has developed all sorts of aches and pains and stresses. Dr put it down to being pre-pubescent. They start to WORRY about stuff. Silly stufff that is HUGE to them but easily missed,

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