I hope this isn't too sensitive a question.
I'm worried that my 4 week old may have downs.
It's nothing more than is appearance, and also he seems different from my other children somehow - it's hard to quantify.
I've looked at a list of physical characteristics I found, and he does not have many of them, but his eyes have a small fold at the inner canthus and they are slanted - also the lower lid is very large. It wasn't so evident when he was tiny but now his face has filled out, I keep just thinking, Oh he looks like a baby with downs. iyswim. But sometimes he doesn't.
I realise he could have this appearance and not have a trisomy. I'm just wondering if there is something definitive that would make it clear, one way or another. And if it is always obvious to the doctors when a child is born.
How can I find out - should I just ask the HV next time I see her? Should I ask the GP to do a blood test? please forgive my ignorance. The odds when we had the quad test came up borderline/low risk at 1/350. I'm 39.
Thankyou