Thank you NK3 - I did speak with Sue at Kawasaki Foundation & as you said she is lovely, was very very helpful & did put my mind at rest a bit as to the percentage of kids who end up with heart damage from this - I thought from reading stuff around the net it was pretty much guaranteed
between yourselves & Sue, you gave me the information & confidence I needed to push for an ECG ( I was been very dumb & forgot the echocardiogram is the short term for ECG
(migraines from hell lately not helping
) - speaking to Sue who explained the illness better & other symptoms, probably convinced me even more so that this IS what DD has had.
Anyway I rang the hospital back on Tuesday, they were meant to ring me yesterday, but just as I was putting a letter together this morning the Registrar we saw did ring back -
I've got to admit I wasn't that impressed by him, as he seemed to be wanting to pass the buck of him not following normal procedure back onto me
saying "well you did agree with not sending her for any tests at the appointment"
- yet he still insisted that he didn't think it was for the best, as even if no heart problem showed up now, as it didn't mean she was home & dry as it could develop later 
after my arguing that it was better that is is done, as it was a simple scan & being left in limbo as we are is no good for anyone, especially not DD - he complained as to why I didn't say so then
I had to remind him that I am not a Dr & this is all new to me, so I had no idea of what to expect, & that I also have health problems myself, so don't always find it easy to take things in as quickly as I need to - so he then said he would TRY
& put her through for an ECG, but they might refuse & asked if the did refuse what would I do then
Up to that point I had been quite polite & hadn't mentioned getting advice elsewhere - I then said that I had spoken to Kawasaki Foundation & was more convinced than ever that DD did have KD & I now knew that NORMAL procedure was to Scan & if the Scan was refused then I would be forced to take it as far as needed to make sure the scan was done.
he then back tracked by saying he was used to diagnosing & treating patients who still had the illness & that he couldn't actually treat DD as she was now symptom free & a clear scan wouldn't mean that she wouldn't develop problems later
my reminding him that I had said she'd collapsed during PE & play a School with breathlessness & that this had only happened SINCE the first rash & symptoms - round in circles a bit more
but it has been left that she WILL be getting the Scan done, probably next week :) & I then have to ring his secretary to chase if I don't hear anything or don't get the results quick enough
I could have done without the stress of having to argue for it, but it least it is getting done & I hope for all our sakes - Dr included it is clear, as I might just be raising it as a complaint if not
Thanks again for all your help :)