I am just back posting but should anyone need an expert on this, I have a grimy T shirt. Possibly white, but seems liek GH has stuck in with a coloured wash. Typical.
My 3 have all done this from repeated and mild (DS3, 6 times) to long and hard (DS1, 2 weeks before 5th birthday and for 40 minutes). 30 mins is enough for brain damage. He certainly is not (Can I get him off his Kindle to do laundry, aged 11?)but needed so much valium to stop fitting, the next step would have been to stop his heart, that I thought he was brain damaged as he could not talk properly for 2 days.
My advice is dose, dose, dose as it may not be the answer if they are doing spikey temperatures which brings it on but it is better than the alternative.
And get some Calpol suppositories and know how to use them. Vaseline, wet the end, get a nurse to show you. You are not a paedophile (blokes uncomfortble with this, understand) I had some left over from DS1's spiral fracture of his femur and hospitalised for 6-8 week when we lived in Malmo, 6 weeks before my planned homebirth of DS2, life on the relative edge. They came in v useful as DS2 (a v confuing timeline) was the first to go at about a year old.
DS2 started fitting first thing in morning after his christening. His glow that day was not religious (sorry very RC Mum). I think he went a week later at 5 in the morning. Lucky to have a BF who is a Modern Matron. Her advice was to give him a suppository and I could see him twitching.
I went for it, getting the bum pills from the bathroom cupboard. They work so quickly. I could see him starting to go and then do this 'Ahh' moment, thats better and settle. I did not realised what a moving moment it was to be. I get tearful looking back. I would never have had suppositories to hand if not the trauma of DS1. I would not have done so without the advice that I don't think NHS direct would have done (2 aspirin and a lie down or why don't you go and see your doctor? Don't get me started..)
My GP would always complain when I asked for a repeat prescription (they are about £10 for 10) and seemed to think I never gave oral calpol/nurofen which was bemusing. If I had demanded those on free prescription (please don't try) the cost would have looked like a cottage hospital. Twitfoolery in comparison to calling out an ambulance which I always did to at least get oxygen on them.
Anyhow, my boys have grown out of (which they do at 5) but do get refer to me if necessary.
Do also get an ear thermometer and know all your normal temperatures. The MalmoHeights lot tend to a low base temperature of 36.5 C. When they hit 37 (normal for the rest of the population) I went for nurofen first. Calpol is better at getting temperature down but i have that as a suppository so my second line of defence that I can do before I called an ambulance. (it makes sense even given my irish roots).
MalmoMum