Before I start, I should explain that ds1 has Asperger Syndrome. I've already posted this in Special Needs, but no-one has any ideas there, so I wondered if there were any opticians or eye people over here who might be able to help.
We are in the process of getting ds1's visual motor issues assessed, having had his vision checked by a standard optician and finding out that he has excellent 'vision' but very poor convergence and motor control.
We were just about to book him in at a nearby university's science department, (where they can do a lot more thorough checks and assess for Irlens among other things) when I spoke to ds2's consultant optician at the hospital's eye clinic ds1 came into the conversation. She told me they have an orthoptist (or was it opthamologist?) that is trained to check out motor/behavioural opti stuff and she has taken his name and details so that he can be seen quickly, as soon as the GP refers him. The advantage of this is that, obviously these checks can be done on the NHS for free and they are then able to refer on to the most appropriate people for further more in-depth testing if necessary. Its still possible that we will have to pay somewhere along the line, but probably worth trying the NHS route in the first instance.
In the meantime, he seems to be struggling with his eyes. Not his sight, he says he can see fine. He has a sort of tic where he scrunches up his eyes anyway and just recently he seems to be doing it a lot more and at the same time looking as if its really bothering him. Normally he just does the scrunching without even realising he's doing it, so this is definitely different.
He says his eyes don't feel itchy or sore - they feel like they are 'disconnected', yet he can still see. 
That's all I can get out of him about it. He says its really hard to explain how they feel, they don't hurt or feel poorly, but he thinks its getting worse and the only way he can describe the feeling is that his eyes feel disconnected, but he can still see.
Its made more difficult by the fact that he is highly verbal, but really struggles to verbalise anything relating to himself either physically or emotionally.
So, I'm really confused and don't know what to think. Last time he said this (before christmas) I took him to the GP to get his eyes checked, as I thought he must have an infection and I know he's hopeless at recognising when he's ill. The GP checked his eyes and said they were all clear.
Could it be sensory? Or something more fundamental, like the way his brain is processing images?
I do know that he has a fairly significant visual processing delay and wonder if he's actually starting to notice that somehow. This evening he said to me that he feels like he sometimes sees something, but doesn't realise he's seen it, so it does sound like he might somehow be becoming aware of the delay - is that even possible?
We already know that he has trouble filtering out noise (as in auditory sensory problems) and he's now also telling me that because of this strange feeling in his eyes, he is struggling to take anything in when he reads (reading is one of his great passions) and that at school he can't take anything in at all, because the combination of classroom noise and sight problems are making it impossible. 
Does anyone have any experience of something similar to this, or have any ideas as to what it might be and how we can help him?
Obviously we will now be pushing to get him seen asap, but even if the appointment's rushed through, its going to be at least a couple of weeks and he seems to be really struggling.