DD2 (20mo) is having grommets fitted next week. The surgeon said she'd be fine to go to nursery the next day, but I have just googled a bit and read some advice that said keep them at home for a couple of days to reduce risk of infection. She also has her nursery Christmas party a few hours after the OP. I was going to take her if she's happy in herself, but would that be a bad idea? Any advice welcome!