I wondered if anyone can help, (sorry this is a bit lengthy) my dd has agenesis corpus callosum, diagnosed pre natally, but she is now nearly five and is asymptomatic, and was discharged from post natal consultancy check ups at 18 months and we were told to expect no further problems.
She has recently started school and about 18 months ago I asked the GP for advice as she was experiencing a toilet training phobia, she advised we consult the community paediatrician which we did and all was resolved. About a month ago I was asked to attend to see the paediatrician again, and did not know why, I just assumed it was a routine pre school appointment. On arrival I was told it was a follow up to the previous years visit, I explained that we did not need any help now, and was asked some questions about dds development, and asked if I wanted the school nurse to be informed. I said I did not as there were no concerns, and was told to come back in eight months if I wanted, or if things were still Ok to ignore any further appointment letter.
I was horrified to then receive a letter detailing the entire discussion I had had, some of it quoted in speech marks in a really patronising manner, accompanied by a note telling me this same letter had been sent to the school nurse.
I feel as if I have been thumped in the gut by this complete betrayal of trust. I did not want to inform the school about dd's diagnosis as she is symptom free, and the condition is so rare people tend to misunderstand it and I did not want her to be labelled, I also work in a role where all my colleagues will be able to see this private information about dd once it goes onto school records.
Does anyone have any advice about what I can do, and have I got any legal rights in this situation, I think it is a contravention of NHS patients rights, my parental rights and the data protection act, but is this correct??? Please can anyone help?