I've posted about this before, so apologies for repetition but need more advice if you can bear to read through my late night ramble..
DS2 is now 7 months with quite severe reflux (and on Omeprazole and Domperidone for it). When he was 6 weeks old we started using a movement monitor when he was asleep as I'd read that refluxy babies could get sleep apnoea and that it might be linked to SIDS. I have since heard that this link has been disproved.
However, we've had two monitors and both have gone off approximately weekly. Recently, it hadn't gone off for a month and then went off twice in 2 days when he had a bad cold. I know that these monitors are considered to be unreliable, but we have picked DS2 up when the alarm has gone off and he still hasn't breathed for a further 10 seconds. Also, last time, I saw him jump and then continue to breathe, as if the alarm was reminding him to breathe.
The peadiatrician has been very dismissive and says babies don't get sleep apnoea (and his registrar's advice was simply to turn off the monitor and not to worry). He finally agreed to have an overnight oxygen study done on DS2. This showed 18 desats during the night, but his average was still 99% (brilliant). The lowest was 92% which is slightly below normal but he did have a cold.
The nurse who brought the equipment to us and analysed the results wanted it repeated but the paediatrician has refused and said that no further action is required. He told her that we might all have apnoeic episodes but are not monitored to know about it and that he doesn't know what normal is for a 'normal' baby anyway. I get the impression the nurse really tried to persuade him and feels that it should be investigated further.
Obviously, I don't want DS2 to have sleep apnoea, but my DH and I strongly believe that something isn't quite right (and can pretty much predict when the alarm will go off, due to DS2 being snuffly etc..) It may be that he has it but nothing needs to be done about it. I'm not a doctor and I just don't know what to think/do next etc.. I have been battling this man for 4 months now and I'm fed up (and have a poorly DS1 too to compound my problems - and add to the title of 'fussy mother' which I'm sure is all over DS2's notes!!)
If you've got to this point in my post, can you tell me what you'd do next? Am I just overreacting like the paediatrician seems to think? Thanks for reading.