Went to the HV yesterday, dd was tired from Rhyme Time and complaining when I dressed her. She tends to scratch herself when stressed and needed her nails cutting.
The HV immediately declared that dd had eczema and what was I doing about it.
I showed the HV dd's actual eczema patches, two tiny ones behind her knee. I said that I had had eczema from birth and that since these seemed very minor,and were not bothering her, I was just washing her in aqueous cream and using vaseline.
I was told that dd needed steroid cream and that I must go to the GP for Diprobase. I tried to say that I've never been impressed with Diprobase myself but this would not do: DD is not me, and so I should try everything.
Thing is: when I was small, my parents tried everything on me. It was very upsetting for all of us and I can't imagine what a nightmare it must have been for my parents. Eventually I learned to live with eczema. It gets bad now and then, I use a bit of Eumovate, it goes away and of course I never have a good scratch, oh no.
I could understand if dd was covered in it, because it would upset her and of course there is an infection risk which is serious in a 10 month old baby.
However, she seems fine. She isn't trying to scratch the patches through her clothes, for instance, and they come and go.
I always told myself I'd be relaxed about it if she did develop it but am I too relaxed?
She is bf and blw, avoiding nuts because I have a peanut allergy too.