TBMOM, Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, However, I would like to point out...
You have 1 child (pfb?)
I have 4
The playgroups I go to ( 3 each week) are in village halls and run once a week.
I also used to work for a charity which supported people who had been infected with MRSA. I was given on occasion special sicky swabs to swab all sorts of things and places and I have seen the results myself
The toys in a gps surgery are much worse. Sorry but I've seen the results myself.
Yes, personally I agree with you about the new hand soap that you don't need to touch, it is a stage unnecesary in the hygene stakes, I can see a lot of other uses for the dispenser tho for children with SN, and old folks who have weak hands.
Lastly yes you are right that cleaning product companies make a fortune out of us because we feel the need to antibac everything and it is quite possible to be too clean....... On the other hand 50 years ago when we didn't take these measures the number of children who made it to the age of 5 was much lower. Yes there were other factors, environmental, financial, social etc, but believe me antibacing has made a difference.
Its very easy to say don't be so PFB.
So i know where you are coming from.
Its very difficult to look at a child in the HDU and wonder if they will make it to their birthday.
I've done both in the past.
If toys are going to be made available to sick children to share then they need to be cleaned regularly, because if they aren't sooner or later a vulnerable child will come into contact with an infection with could have catastrophic results.