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How Jaqueline Wilson books helped me and why I will not ban them from any possible children.

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peoplepleaser1312 · 16/04/2020 21:16

This post is the entire reason why I made this account. I would like to clarify a few things - I'm 17 years old, a guy and not wanting to start a family right now (if ever), I would, however, like to explain to some of the parents on here who don't quite seem to understand the underlying reasons why JW and her books mean a lot to so many kids.
A lot of parents on here are concerned because she has books that begin with the phrase "I hate my dad" or talk about taboo subjects for children, but it would seem that you are all missing the point. In the book that begins with the sentence "I hate my dad", her dad is a man who practically refuses to let the family do anything fun, calls her sister and her mum fat and is borderline abusive. Yes, that specific book has a lot of other underlying issues but even still.
JW books taught me that abuse, even from parents, shouldn't be tolerated. It allowed me to feel empathy for children who were in similar situations to the children in the books.
Another fantastic example of a book by her explaining that abusive parents shouldn't be tolerated is Cookie, a book in which a young girl is dealing with not only bullying but an abusive father.
If I did not read Jaqueline Wilson's books, I probably would have thought that the trauma I experienced at such a young age was normal and I wouldn't have told anyone about it.
Parents like to shy away from books with subjects like abuse for their children because they don't want their child to be exposed to it. Here's the hard truth - in this day and age, with social media and the internet, kids need to be brought up knowing that certain things are wrong. They need to be told that if someone harasses them online it is not okay. Trauma can be experienced at any age - but when a child under 9 years old experiences repeated or severe trauma their personality doesn't merge as the brain decides that it is necessary to cope, and they can develop what's known as Dissociative Identity Disorder - or DID (also known as mulitple personality disorder)

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Branleuse · 16/04/2020 21:20

I think you're right. Im more than happy for my kids to read them.

foamrolling · 16/04/2020 21:22

Why are you posting this? Is mumsnet known for not liking Jacqueline Wilson books? I've not noticed any threads about her. I'm in my 40s and read Jacqueline Wilson as a teen. She's been around for yonks. I bought my daughter a couple of her books but she showed no interest.

Bluebooby · 16/04/2020 21:24

Hi, I'm glad JW's books helped you. I actually read a lot of her books last year, even though I'm 32 and they're aimed at teenagers. What inspired you to write this post though? I haven't heard of mumsnetters in general being anti her books, but maybe I missed something.

midwesteaster · 16/04/2020 22:01

I don't think I've actually come across any threads like you describe OP?
Or any negative JW posts.
Regardless I'm glad the books helped you.

Witchend · 18/04/2020 10:04

I'm not sure why you have got that impression. JW is often recommended on here. My dd2 was very into them when younger, and read loads.

There are specific JW books that people don't like-the one I can think of off-hand is one where a child falls in love with the teacher, and now we would say very carefully grooms her. At the time it was written as a love/romance story, now I'm sure she would write it very differently. I don't think anyone, including JW herself would feel it appropriate now.

Floexotic · 18/04/2020 10:09

I really like them-well written and engaging and address issues that some children need to know happen to others and others need to know aren’t right.
I tend to read them with my dd so can discus s anything they bring up

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 18/04/2020 10:15

I did stop my DD reading Cookie- but she was a sensitive 7yo when she brought it home from the School Bookshop. But when she's a bit older, it will be fine. She's nearly 9 now, so it may be alright now. She is reading a different JW at the moment.

peoplepleaser1312 · 04/05/2020 14:05

I have seen a few threads saying that they are refusing to let their kids read JW due to some of the more mature issues or something like that, it's pretty ridiculous

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