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This board is primarily for MNers without children - others are welcome to post but please be respectful

Update from MNHQ - board name change

42 replies

BeckyAMumsnet · 04/11/2023 17:29

Hi, everyone. Following your feedback, we've changed the name of Childfree Mumsnetters to MNers without children, to be inclusive of all.

We've not removed the board from Active. If we did this, it would be harder for those who could use a space like this to find it. We are mindful of the reasons why you asked for this in the first place and would ask that you continue to report posts you think break our guidelines. We've also added a disclaimer to the top of the board.

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Sauerkrautsandwich · 06/11/2023 18:58

Yes please off the active board looking at some threads

AutumnComfort · 06/11/2023 19:29

musixa · 06/11/2023 18:24

The two names?

'Childfree' implies having made a choice not to have children; or it may be sometimes used by people who didn't originally make that choice but have reconciled themselves to it (see the thread 'childless to childfree' on this board)

People who wanted to have children but couldn't, and still feel this as a lack in their lives, tend to use 'childless' to describe themselves, therefore 'childfree' as a board name might seem exclusive of those people.

'Mners without children' is neutral, reflecting that the board is for anyone who is living their life without children in it, and cannot or does not want to conceive/adopt children in the future, however they arrived at that place.

Yes. This makes sense. Thank you.

LorraineInSpain · 06/11/2023 19:34

Are they incapable of scrolling, seeing the board name and thinking nope, that's not relevant to me, I won't bother?

Sadly a lot of people seem to be, or else they’re aggrieved that a board isn’t for them. I’m never sure which it is. Black Mumsnetters seems to have a similar issue with white people posting there and disrupting.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 08:20

And frankly, I am getting a bit tired of parents coming up with reasons why the board name is wrong and that’s why we’re getting endless goady posters. It isn’t difficult to not post on something that has nowt to do with you. Those who are incapable of doing so have only themselves to look at - they weren’t lured here by our boastful former board name

Yes. Thank you. This. Parents are respinsible for what they click on in the same way everyone else is - it's not as if the board title doesn't make it clear.

EmpressaurusOfCats · 07/11/2023 08:25

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 08:20

And frankly, I am getting a bit tired of parents coming up with reasons why the board name is wrong and that’s why we’re getting endless goady posters. It isn’t difficult to not post on something that has nowt to do with you. Those who are incapable of doing so have only themselves to look at - they weren’t lured here by our boastful former board name

Yes. Thank you. This. Parents are respinsible for what they click on in the same way everyone else is - it's not as if the board title doesn't make it clear.

Obviously the goady posters are all our fault because we made them do it.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 08:38

Gotta admit, my jaw dropped a little at the poster calling it 'provocative' to have it flashing up in active. Only if someone's set on being provoked, and they might want to examine why that's the case.

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 12:34

Is it worth to drop on site stuff again about the threads in active? What do you think

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 12:39

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 12:34

Is it worth to drop on site stuff again about the threads in active? What do you think

Only if you want pages of parental pile-on again. 😆I'm done with that, arguing with some of them was like trying to nail jelly to the wall. I'll stick to telling them this is the CF site and reporting the repeat offenders.

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 12:42

I am so riled up that I will happily risk it. I mean like it cannot be any different to what's happening on this board already😂

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 12:45

I've got to the stage where I see a new thread and think 'I give that until page 2 before the parents pile in with whatever corrections they have to our clearly uninformed thinking and to tell us they know best.'

ItsNotRocketSalad · 07/11/2023 12:49

Thanks for the name change. AFAIK any posts in here that I've reported have been deleted, so thanks for that too.

Personally I'm going to report and try not to engage with any goaders. They're just acting up and will stop if they don't get attention.

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 12:57

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 12:45

I've got to the stage where I see a new thread and think 'I give that until page 2 before the parents pile in with whatever corrections they have to our clearly uninformed thinking and to tell us they know best.'

2 pages is very optimistic.
Unless you have settings on 5 posts per page😂

Tbh I am in a mood because I injured my foot today and I have low pain and annoyance threshold and it puts me into "I will fight all and any enemies and annoyances with my bear hands" mood.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 12:57

Personally I'm going to report and try not to engage with any goaders. They're just acting up and will stop if they don't get attention

DM wisdom. 'Just ignore her and she'll go away.'

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 13:01

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 12:57

2 pages is very optimistic.
Unless you have settings on 5 posts per page😂

Tbh I am in a mood because I injured my foot today and I have low pain and annoyance threshold and it puts me into "I will fight all and any enemies and annoyances with my bear hands" mood.

Yesterday I was in 'bloody hell I need to get the plumber in again and it's going to cost a bomb, I KNOW IT IS' mood. (That's after the plumber costing a bomb last week, the place is falling apart). That might have added an extra layer of testiness to posts.

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 13:03

Oh yeah. Tradesmen pricea. Understandable yet infuriating 😂
I aid last few years that if I had my time again I would train as a plumber or electrician. Each costed me over few years more than immigration lawyer😂

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/11/2023 13:07

DB wanted to learn a trade. DM wanted him to stay at school and take A levels (which he flunked, I swear out of sheer spite). Now he's a civil servant and looking forward to retirement because he's so meh about it. Add that to the grudges he has about DM (which are numerous).😀

Sauerkrautsandwich · 07/11/2023 13:32

Ah. The ultimate rebellion!

Even more annoyed because I am icing my foot then realising that cold feet make me pee which means more walking and more icing and more peeing ad infinitum🤦

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