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Babysitting fee

33 replies

nosha · 27/05/2010 22:27

Hi everyone,
I would like to hire a babysitter for the first time, and I was wondering what are the usual fees for babysitting for three children ages 8 years, 4 years and 6 months

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Blondeshavemorefun · 27/05/2010 22:55

Different people charge different rates. I personally charge £10 ph and have minimum rate of 4hrs

others younger/less exp charge less

also depends on area

doesn't make any diff if I have 1 or 3 children tho as you have a baby I would use someone who has baby exp

also check they have first aid/crb and nanny insurance

nannynick · 27/05/2010 22:58

You mean in the evening?
It varies depending on where you are and the persons experience, plus on market forces.

Try looking on childcare.co.uk for listings in your area to get a feel for costs. It could easily range from £5 to £12 per hour. Big difference ... it does vary a lot.

Missus84 · 27/05/2010 22:58

Agree with Blondes - depends where you are and who you hire. Would the children all be in bed? Would the babysitter have to do any feeding/bathing? Would you be back before or after midnight?

I charge £7 an hour.

funnysinthegarden · 27/05/2010 22:59

wow, my babysitter charges £5 per hour for 2 children and will sit for as long (or not) as we like. We in CI and so v expensive usually for most things

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funnysinthegarden · 27/05/2010 23:40

I work on £15-20 per night too. Anymore and it would be too expensive to go out. My BS does not have insurance/first aid I am sure, on the other hand I know her very well so no need perhaps......

Blondeshavemorefun · 28/05/2010 07:09

You may know your bs well but that won't help them to know what to do and possibly save your childs life if they were choking/burnt/ hit their head etc

yes teenagers are cheap and means you can have a night out but at what price to your childrens safety if something happened could they cope?

funnysinthegarden · 28/05/2010 08:14

I'm not talking about teenagers, I'm talking about women in their 20's.

Rather jumping to conclusions to assume that just because my babysitters don't charge ridiculous sums of money, then they are clueless teenagers.

Also very patronising to imply that I will compromise the safety of my children for a night out.

nannynick · 28/05/2010 08:23

As a teenager I wanted less money than I do now. 15+ years of inflation though to take into account, though not sure how much that would actually increase price.
As a teenager I probably didn't care for babies until I was 18, prior to that children would have been aged 3+.
Some teenagers are fully capable of caring for children, whereas others are not - same goes for adults.
Age therefore may not really be that much of a factor, perhaps it'a more about experience and the preception that someone with experience will be able to cope better in an unexpected situation. That may not be the case in reality, someone without much experience may well cope just as well, if not better than someone with lots of experience.

Evening babysitting rates I feel may be more down to supply and demand. These days parents can find it hard to find a local teenager as now many people don't know their neighbours yet alone those in surrounding streets. If the teenager does not advertise, then how do parents find them. Thus parents hear only about those things advertised. Some are lucky to hear about babysitters through friends, though if a friend recommends a babysitter they use then potentially it means their babysitter may not be as available. What are your views?

Blondeshavemorefun · 28/05/2010 08:43

you said you knew her well and maybe no need for first aid

obv not many teenager have first aid (apart from what they are taught at school) but if a grown woman (or man)in their 20's is babysitting regually/seriously then i feel that they should have some kind of up to date first aid (maybe she does - worth a check i think)

tbh i think that mums/dads should go on a course as well - our school did one last year and some mums including my mb did it

EVERYONE who works or has young children should have basic knowledge of choking/cpr/burns etc

i dont charge "ridiculous sums of money"

i charge my normal hourly rate,which yes is slightly higher than some in my area,and much higher than others on here/other areas but i get work, lots of it and often turn it down and give to friends (if parents happy for that) so seems parents are more than happy to pay it

now footballers, they get "ridiculous sums of money" think ashely cole gets £80k a week for kicking a ball about - now thats stupid

obviously paying a bs my rates does make the evening more expensive and i can understand that some pay less/cant afford more but thats not my fault

areas all vary

funnysinthegarden · 28/05/2010 08:49

BHMF it seems to me that you protesteth rather too much about this matter. You will see that I did not say you charged ridiculous sums of money, I was making a generalisation.

If you get plenty of work then presumably you are charging just the right amount of money.

looneytune · 28/05/2010 08:54

Not read whole thread. I'm in the South East and charge £10ph, minimum of 3 hours. I know some who charge less and that's fine but I know I can get the £10ph here and tbh, I really want it to be worth my while to leave the house, that's just me. And tbh, I regularly get £50 per night for overnight stays (at my house). I'm sure some charge more like £7ph, depends on what sort of babysitter you are looking for.

Good luck

Blondeshavemorefun · 28/05/2010 09:06

maybe funny - i blame the blondeness and af

looney - same here, tho have 4 hrs minimum charge

nosha - where are you as areas vary

Sullwah · 28/05/2010 09:46

Try www.sitters.co.uk

They are great

BigWeeHag · 28/05/2010 10:19

I love my teenage babysitter - she has first aid, extensive SN experience, the kids love her . House is always wrecked when I get in, and she usually has a slightly shell shocked expression, but she keeps coming back! I pay her £5 ish an hour - well, if it's 2-3 hours, I do a tenner, more like 3-4 then £15, if it's more than 4 hours £20 and if it's raining I pay for her taxi. I know that is a lot more than general rates around here, but I value her, and DS1 is a pickle, (he has ASD) and I want someone who knows what they are doing!

I should add, I have known her since she was 2 (she's 17 now) and I used to sit for her!

Just sort of pointing out that teenage babysitters do not = thoughtless parents.

funnysinthegarden · 28/05/2010 11:13

BHMF, fair enough, I too am blaming PMT. I pay £50 for an overnight, just need to find someone to do it now!

Blondeshavemorefun · 28/05/2010 11:17

tis true, i was a teenager once (many moons ago ) and had sole charge of a 4mth and 5yr but was 18

i was more generalising over 14yrs rather late end of teens iyswim

mollymax · 28/05/2010 11:43

I am a sitter for Sitters. It is £5.80 an hour minimum of 4 hours. you then pay a booking fee of £4 to sitters and an annual membership of roughly £50. Good for peace of mind as all sitters are crb checked and interviewed, also most of us are slightly more mature

eastmidlandsnightnanny · 28/05/2010 18:35

I am in east midlands and charge £12-£15 an hr for babysitting with a min of 4hrs and earnt that too, admittley as a qualified childrens nurse the types of parents that book me are those with young babies, children with additional needs or those that can afford that additional peace of mind that comes with having a very qualified and experienced person care for your children.

I also in my day job run babysitting courses for 13-17yr old (yr 9 -12) and after completing the course (we doesnt have a first aid element but does have a minjor injuries/illness element) we suggest from £2.50 an hr for a 13yr old upto £5 an hr for a 17yr old depending on their previous experiences etc.

Everyone charges different amounts and the amount you pay should at least reflect the experience someone has and great if you can get an experienced nanny or childminder to babysit on a friday night for £5 an hr but many teenagers would expect this rate to so compare what you are getting for your money.

I am having first baby end aug and have to say I would rather pay around £10 an hr and have one night out in a year for an experienced qualified person who I can just relax when out than pay £5 an hr to a newly qualified nursery nurse or teenager and go out twice in a year - but we all make our own choices in life.

mollymax · 28/05/2010 19:35

EMNN....I too am a very qualified nursery nurse... over 20 years experience! As all those who are on sitters books need to be. I choose to work for sitters as i do not need to advertise and can choose when to work. You do not have to pay an extortinate amount of money for a qualified babysitter, when to be honest 9 times out of 10 the children are asleep!

cat64 · 28/05/2010 23:40

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ticktockclock · 28/05/2010 23:44

Well said cat64 I concur

MadameCheese · 28/05/2010 23:54

Hmm, I saw this thread and thought "great" as I was about to post the same question as the OP. However I'm now thoroughly confused. Never thought there was such a thing a professional babysitter. So, I've got 2 teenage sisters 14 and 15 (friends of the family) coming to babysit my DS. He will be in bed. We are going to be out from 7.30 - 11 ish, 2 minutes up the road by car. How much should I give them? Thanks

Missus84 · 29/05/2010 11:11

£20?

MadameCheese · 29/05/2010 16:34

Each?