Plenty of people have nanny crises, there isn't one here! Yet...
The 2 months was when they rehired, I don't know when she brought the claim but it doesn't really matter anyway. Either way 6-12 months for a new FT nanny would be okay. It's the transition to au pair that worries me.
If your friend can make a good case (and ML, reduced hours, changed duties, less pay would be fine), offers it to the nanny who will probably decline and then recruits an au pair they'll be fine, but what wouldn't be okay (IMO) is letting the nanny go and replacing them with an au pair.
The jobs are not that different - some nannies will do family laundry, I myself have been known to bung on a wash, iron a parental shirt and do the cleaning when the housekeeper is on holiday . It depends what the au pair will do at the end of the day.
"Au pairs's duties would differ somewhat from nanny duties, but not hugely." - would tend to indicate to me that the situation bears investigating. Check out suitable alternative employment
IMO nanny will refuse as:
"Whether a job is 'suitable alternative employment' depends on several things including:
- how close the work is to your current job -FAIRLY, NO LONGER SOLE CHARGE AND SOME ADDITIONAL DUTIES
- the terms of the job being offered - PROBABLY ROUGHLY EQUAL EXCEPT PAY (SEE BELOW)
- your skills, abilities and circumstances in relation to the job - NANNY PROBABLY OVERQUALIFIED AND OVERSKILLED!
- the pay (including benefits), status, hours and location of the job - AGAIN V DIFFERENT"
Therefore probably not suitable alternative employment, nanny is entitled to resign and loses no redundancy benefits.
The nanny in question is live in, the au pair will be too. The pay will clearly be different. The hours will probably be different. All she has to do is offer. I'm 99% certain nanny will decline, if not then you get a bargainous au pair who needs no training! If she doesn't offer then nanny could, theoretically, bring an unfair dismissal case as she wasn't offered the new post. Sorry, I rambled, but I hope it makes sense.
Let's remember though, there is no such thing (officially) as an au pair any more. They're just an inexperienced home childcarer/mother's help type person as far as the letter of the law goes. A lot of nanny jobs evolve as a child goes to school - my last employer went down from a nanny to an au pair with a reduction in hours/pay but not in duties. That was a mutual decision btw - I left to get married. The big difference for her was she was in France and could then employ an American rather than being restricted to EU passport holders.
Imamum2 - Strix is an excellent and very fair employer, I would advise you to read some of the things she has posted on here before entering into a slanging match.