Hi my childminder wants to change my pay from monthly to weekly, she also came into my work asking for money which I had not got and said she needed it because it were her sons birthday. She then phoned up mivering my dad and he told her it was not what we agreed. Is she allowed to do this? I told her a couple of days ago that I am pulling my daughter out and she was not happy and told me I have to give her 30 days notice which I am not happy about as I do not want my daughter their but I missed this when she went through the contract with me so will have to keep her their. What I would also like to know is do I need proof of when i handed in my notice or is it just a verbal agreement from the day I said my daughter were leaving. Any help be very much appreciated. Thanx