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Well, what a strange day I have had!!

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AvadaKedavra · 05/04/2010 19:46

First a phone call enquiry, things going well and was about to offer them a slot to come over this week when they asked me if I believe in God, when I said no I'm not religious, they put the phone down on me

Then another call from a family who's 2 children I mind, asking me to be Godparent to their youngest boy Not entirely sure where to go with that one though given my comment above!

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FabIsGettingThere · 05/04/2010 19:48

Well, obviously you have to tell the child's parents that you don't believe and give them the chance to chose someone else.

AvadaKedavra · 05/04/2010 20:01

Yes I realise that, just hoping they don't have the same reaction as the potentials

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LynetteScavo · 05/04/2010 20:03

Not being religious, and not believeing in God are two different things though.

southeastastra · 05/04/2010 20:03

it's a sign

AvadaKedavra · 05/04/2010 20:15

Am I about to be struck down then?

Lynette, I'm not religious and not a believer in any higher being

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Numberfour · 06/04/2010 07:02

Ava, i would probably have given the same answer being put on the spot like that!!! besides, it isn't really any of their business, is it?

WEIRD!!!!!

probonbon · 06/04/2010 07:07

When you're a Godparent you have to say "I turn to Christ" so you orta share your non belief..they need to know.

AvadaKedavra · 06/04/2010 08:52

They'll be here later so will get it over and done with, I do hope they don't take offence though, I did feel very honoured to have been asked

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maduggar · 06/04/2010 11:16

dont you have to be christened yoruself, before you are able to be a godparent?

AvadaKedavra · 06/04/2010 13:13

Wouldn't know. I was christened anyway not that that is the point, I don't believe in God.

They were fine with it by the way

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lollipopmother · 07/04/2010 16:24

I know that to be a Godparent to a Catholic child then you have to have done all the Catholic gubbins but they don't mind having people who aren't Catholic as 'witnesses'. I don't know about C of E protocol though.

BoffinMum · 09/04/2010 20:49

I think the C of E position is that you should have been baptised, and be prepared to say the I turn to Christ thing.

However declaring baptism is just a case of the parents ticking a box on the form when they put your name down. You don't have to present a certificate or anything like that.

At the end of the day, and considerably more important IMVHO, is how you behave once you are a godparent.

Shoshe · 09/04/2010 22:05

I got asked by a mindees Mum once as well,

Had to explain when she said

' You are CofE arnt you tho'

That actually I was an Athiest, and by birt Jewish and Thank You for asking me, but maybe she ought to ask somebody else.

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