Background: I might have to have surgery at some point in the next few weeks - not certain, but am making plans for DS so that it isn't a last minute panic and so that when I break the news to DH I can tell him that I've taken care of all the practicalities. Since DH will freak out with worry about me, it will be one thing I can take off his plate!
I am SAHM, and usually do the school run (just one DS). There's a CM who picks up at the same school who seems nice. I've never spoken to her but have overheard her talking to the kids she collects, and the kids seem very happy. I don't know for sure whether I'm actually going to have to go to hospital. But when I do know, I'd like to approach her to see if she would do pick up and drop off and look after DS until 6pm until I've recuperated (if I have surgery it will be at least 12 weeks booking for her, maybe a bit more if I need further treatment). I just wondered if anyone could tell me how much it's likely to cost - we're in central London (zone 2)? I don't want to ask and then go if her rates are actually very reasonable. Are there any questions I should ask her? I've never used a CM before although DS has been to nursery.
Thanks very much in advance, never been in this topic before so hope I'm not going against etiquette somehow!