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what questions do i need to ask a potential CM?

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Booyhoo · 22/01/2010 23:41

i am returning to work and will have to take my 2 ds' to a childminder. i have never used a childminder before because very sadly the only ones i saw when looking previously dissapointed me alot and when i asked for references, none were able to provide any. one also lied about whether she smoked in her home. i did ask several friends if they would recommend their childminders and none of them said they would

so i am beginning my search again and i want to make sure i am asking the right questions so hopefully i will find someone who is excellent at their job.

can anyone help me? what do i need to know/tell the childminder? what should i be looking for? i'm finding it very hard to even think about leaving my ds's so getting the right person is very important.

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Katymac · 22/01/2010 23:48

These are Alibubbles 'questions for childminders'

How long have you been working with children?

What training have you had? Any qualifications? Are you part of a network, achieved a quality assurance qualification, look at registration certificate, insurance details, business use for car. First aid must be no more than 3 years old, food hygiene certificate, Certificate in Childminding practice or NVQ 3, Contracts and record forms

Do you enjoy being with children and why?

Can I look around, see the rooms and outside play space? If there is no outside play space - how will you make sure my child gets the chance to play outside?

Where will my child rest?

What kind of food and drink will you give? Can I see a menu?

What will my child do all day?

How do you encourage good behaviour?

Will my child be with a regular group of children? How old are they? How will their timetable fit in with my child?

How will you make sure I know how my child is getting on?

What hours is she open?

How much does she charge?

What about when my child is sick, holidays, days off

What do you do in an emergency?

When was her last Ofsted, can you see the report?

Top 10 Quality Pointers

When you visit possible childcare options, look for these Quality Pointers:

Are the children calm, safe, happy and busy?

Do children play and talk together?

Is the childminder listening to the children and answering them carefully?

Is the childminder friendly and proud of her work?

Is she joining in joining in with what the children are doing?

Are there lots of fun activities planned to help children learn and play? Can children plan some of these activities themselves?

Are there plenty of clean toys and equipment for children to use?

Is the premises clean, well kept and safe for children with a fun outside play area (or will the child go to parks and other places regularly)?

Do parents have plenty of chances to say what they want for their children?

If there are other things you want to know, don't be afraid to ask. Good childminders expect you to ask questions and will be happy to answer them.

Always take up references. You could ask for names of other parents to talk to about the service

Listen to your child and find out more if he/she is unhappy
Always trust your own feelings about your childcare - you know your child best

Good Luck

Booyhoo · 22/01/2010 23:50

katymac thats great. thank you so much.

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Booyhoo · 22/01/2010 23:58

sorry to keep on but how long is normal for a settling-in period?
ds1 is 4.5 and is at nursery school in the mornings.
ds2 will be 9 months and has never been cared for by anyone other than me, OH and my parents.

i will be working either 3 days/week or 5 mornings/week.

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Katymac · 23/01/2010 00:10

You are best not asking me I am positively 'out-there' wrt settling in

I like 6 weeks starting with an hour (using the final contracted days) building up slowly until week before you start being your F/T hours

But then I'm odd

Some people charge for settling in - some don't (I don't)

Katymac · 23/01/2010 00:12

But you won't find many childminders like me

Booyhoo · 23/01/2010 00:13

6 weeks does sound a long time but an hour to start sounds good, not sure i would be happy leaving ds2 much longer than that to begin with.

in fact i start back in 4 weeks so 6 weeks wouldnt even be possible. why do employers not take this into account when they are relocating staff????

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Katymac · 23/01/2010 00:15

A lot of childminders will have 1-4 sessions up to 3 or 4 hrs

where are you going to be?

Booyhoo · 23/01/2010 00:24

i'm in Northern Ireland. have been pestering employer since august for a final answer on where i was going to be located. got answer this week. very angry about that but it's the card i've been dealt and so have to now organise a CM with this notice.

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Katymac · 23/01/2010 00:26

& some C/M will meet you, sign contracts & expect the children to start

Booyhoo · 23/01/2010 00:32

i am happy for the boys to begin with the CM straight away, i would rather that than wait til i start back at work and then perhaps there is a problem and i cant get time off to arrange new CM.

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Katymac · 23/01/2010 09:22

I hope you find someone you like Booyhoo - choosing someone to look after your children is so hard

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