Please don't all attack me at once!! I was only trying to be helpful..
DadInsteadofMum - I have checked everything that my agency sent me last time and I called them again today to make double sure.. We are about to find someone else for January and I want to make sure everything is still the same..
...So there is definitely an age limit for Romanians and they cannot come here through an au pair placement once they have reached 28 years old - or at least they have to be under 28 on the day they make their application with a valid offer from a family.
frakkinaroundthechristmas and HarrietThe Spy also - I think it's unfair to say that agencies don't have a clue or their wrong or give out incorrect information. The agency were great at explaining lots of little details and seem to know all the restrictions and so on inside out. Everything I was told by my agency seems correct so I don't know what information you have been given to say that Romanians don't have age restrictions.
nannynick - yes I know about the Youth Mobility scheme.. We considered an English speaking person but ruled it out just because of distances for flying home and what that would cost them (or us) as we usually try to buy a flight at Christmas as a pressie. With the Youth Mobility scheme the age restrictions are older for people from Australia, Canada, Japan & New Zealand but these countries have age limits too. The document you posted is the out of date visa guidelines but these are still the same for au pairs from Romania & Bulgaria.
Over the years I have had some great agencies and it isn't just the work they've put in to find these candidates for us, but also the time and trouble they take in supporting us when the au pair is here. For me I think it is money well spent as the reduction in time and hassle is massive. When I did it before I sometimes spent 5 or 6 weeks of every evening and day off sending emails, answering questions, calling people who didn't answer or if they did it was wrong numbers!! I'm not joking I must have spent nearly 100 hours trying to organise it all the last time we did it ourselves and then the girl let us down at the 11th hour.. Actually it was more than the 11th hour as she didn't turn up and she hadn't phoned to say she wasn't coming.. I descided then that my time was too precious and I'd spent too long agonising over it all.I work enough unsociable hours and miss my family so that 100 hours I could have spent with my kids instead. That alone justifies their fees for me but also I know they are doing it correctly asthey are more informed than me.
Regarding cash in hand - I think we have paid almost all of our au pairs cash in hand.. It is normal isn't it.. I don't try to avoid a papertrail - just its been hassle for us having to write letters to open bank accounts on behalf of au pairs etc.. One or two we've opened accounts after writing letters to ourwn banks to say they live at our address etc but they also seem to change their rules of what letters should say etc. By the time its been sorted most of our au pairs seems happy enough with cash anyway.!!