I think i may have questioned you all about this before.
I have a 2 yr old mindie, who has recently been potty trained, well a few months now. He is brilliant at my house most of the time. I do keep an eye on him and take him to the toilet regularly. At the weekend, when he's at home, his mom or dad sometimes puts him in a nappy because mom says its easier.
There have been two instances this week that have made me wonder if she often puts him in a nappy.
- he had an accident at school and neither her or I had any spare clothes for him. He only lives round the corner from school, but his mom was taking him to his nans for the afternoon, she said to him that she didn't have any spare clothes, but we'll be oks he said we've got a nappy in the pushchair.
I said nothing.
- he had an acccident here at my house yesterday. didn't say he wanted the toilet and only told me once he had finished, which i thought very odd, not like him at all.
When i told his mom i also asked her if he had been in a nappy at the weekend. she said yes he had.
AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHH
How bloody annoying. i have worked so hard to get him dry and stayed in for days and weeks to make sure he was fuling trained.
She is just undoing it, and confusing the child at the same time.
Do i have any right to say anything, she knows my opinion about it already, we've been here before, it makes no difference. It would be so easy for me to do the same and put a nappy on when we're doing anything like going out or on a school run etc. but i wouldn't dream of it.
What shall i do, should i tell her that it is obviously making a difference to him and confusing him, or should i let her bring up her child the ways he wants.
it makes me so mad, she only does it for an easy time with him, but i get the wet clothes and pressure fo carrying around spare clothes, potty etc.
HELP ME!!!!