I miss my au pair...

[lovemybabydoll]

I had an au pair to help me look after my dd. She stayed with us for 3 months and the day she left, I couldn't stop crying. I was finding it so hard not to cry in front of my dd. It's not the work she did because I was at home a lot of the time and it wasn't even a day that she was gone for me to feel the pinch.
I think most of my pain was because I felt for my baby hoping that she didn't miss her. All day I couldn't help but look for signs that she was missing the au pair. This kills me.
What to do? (sad)

you are the most important person to your baby girl. She may well have noticed the au pair is not their anymore but the most important person is, try not to worry. How old is your baby by the way?

it is difficult, i can tell - my 3yo charge goes into my bedroom to look for me i am told.... not sure what to do with a baby as young as yours.