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How much to pay a babysitter?

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EllaAndTheDolphins · 07/07/2009 20:36

I've found a girl to do occasional babysitting for my 7 month old DD. She's an NVQ3 student, 17 years old, really keen to work with children. She wouldn't be in sole charge at first, I'd be around - it's just so I can get other things done a couple of hours a week. If all works out and she's responsible I MAY consider using her for us to have an evening out one day in the future.

I'd like to chance to offer this to a local student for her to get some much-needed experience, and she does seem very keen.

I asked her how much she charges and she said she's open to offers. I have no idea having never employed a babysitter before.

We live in an area where Sitters fees are £5.75 an hour, a childminder asks £3.30ish and a qualified nanny charges about £7.50 an hour. (I know - I am one.)

I don't want to take the piss and offer her a paltry amount, but at the same time she's only really babysat for family before. However, she has a CRB check and has worked in a few nurseries for college placements.

Any suggestions would be gratefully received.

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nannynick · 07/07/2009 20:43

I feel it's up to her to tell you how much she wants to be paid... that's how it usually is with babysitting.

NMW for a 17 year old seems to be £3.53, rising to £4.77 when aged 18.

Sitters fee isn't £5.75 an hour, as sitters charges membership and booking fees on top, so it can make comparison hard. A childminder may charge £3.30 an hour but that is per child and they could be caring for quite a lot of children from various families at the same time... so again not a comparison in my view.

I'd say offer £5 an hour and see what she says.

eastmidlandsnightnanny · 07/07/2009 21:41

I would suggest £5 an hr I run babysitting course for 13-18yr olds and this is what we suggest to the 16-18yr olds who have completed the babysitting course and many are doing some kind of childcare course as well at college.

Maybe suggest £4 an hr whilst she having shared care and then when she has sole charge whilst you are out £5 an hr and then say once she has completed her NVQ you are willing to raise it to £5.50/£6.

EllaAndTheDolphins · 07/07/2009 21:44

Thanks Nick. I wasn't putting childminders and Sitters fees as a comparison, more to make the point that childcare wages round here are slightly below the norm.

She was quite adamant that I should decide how much she should be paid. I hate negotiating monies!

The NMW link is very useful, thank you.

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Page62 · 08/07/2009 13:09

looking at this, i realise how much more expensive it is in london
we pay a sitter £10/hour -- and don't feel too bad as she insists on taking the tube on the way home - normally, families are expected to pay for a cab fare home.
or have i been made to believe this is the case? to be fair, she is 25 and works as a nanny

LupusinaLlamasuit · 08/07/2009 13:19

I just paid 8 quid an hour for our first ever non-family babysitter.

But she had two, not in bed, including demanding toddler, bathed them both and got them ready for bed. And she was a senior nursery nurse roomleader in whose room the toddler is, so helped that he knew her.

It was brilliant, and I was very happy to leave them with her (experienced etc...)

I wouldn't pay so much to someone without all the experience, qualifications etc..

Blondeshavemorefun · 08/07/2009 13:25

page62 - i feel that if you babysit then you can make your own way there and back and not charge parents for a taxi etc

ella - as she is under 18, i feel that £4 is fine and if all is great with her to rise to £5 at a later date

Page62 · 08/07/2009 17:08

Blondeshavemorefun - i take your point. i think we just feel bad making her take the tube if we had dinner out and didn't get back till 1030/1100 IYSWIM. I can't drive and my DH can't drive them back because he would have had something to drink.....

needless to say, we don't do it often as it is quite expensive!

Blondeshavemorefun · 08/07/2009 18:39

as long as your knows what time you are meant to be back, then they can decide if they want to bs for you and make their own way own

i also charge £10ph but i drive and also not in london

malfoy · 08/07/2009 18:47

we pay £7.50 per hour + fare home + leave a tenner for dinner.

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