she gave me satisfactory, which is waht i was expecting, however her recommendations were a bit odd.
they included, having free access to water when mindees wanted them (2yo mindee has cup with a lid that was full and within his reach. 7mo mindee has set feeding times so did not, but apparantly she might want a drink )
more messy play for the 2yo (2yo had a tanntrum whilst she was here because he had a boggy on his finger, he hates getting his hands dirty)
and having more of a story time. anyone tried telling a story to a 2yo who really isnt that intrested, when i pointed that out she tried which made me laugh. 2yo shut the book and hid it from her, when she got another one and sat down next to him (to make it a cosy time) he just shouted NNNOOOOOO. he was happy playing with the cars, i think i proved my point!