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Paid childcare

Discuss everything related to paid childcare here, including childminders, nannies, nurseries and au pairs.

Right choice?

8 replies

Littlepurpleprincess · 17/05/2009 13:29

I am a (recently registered) childminder and currently have one mindee, who will only be with me until next friday.

A few weeks ago, I got a call from a parent who wanted me to do school run a couple times a week. Had a nice chat on the phone and arranged a visit, on a saturday because she couldn't make it during the week.

She never turned up! . She didn't phone, nothing, so I wasted my saturday waiting around with bored DS.

Anyway, yesturday, she phoned back and said she didn't need a childminder for some reason at the time but does now, gave a crap excuse about loosing my phone number and the family information service website 'being down', but do I have vancancies?!

I do in fact have loads of vancancies but told her politely that I was full. I felt that she would be unrelaible and had been very rude and unthoughtful.

Did I do the right thing? Or should I have sucked it up and given her a second chance, I could do with the money. I'm concerned I have been a bit petty.

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SalBySea · 17/05/2009 14:52

I think I would have done the same

looneytune · 17/05/2009 14:57

Good for you! I know you may need the money but I'm 99.9999% sure you made the right decision. Things like this usually lead to problems once they've started so if you had a bad feeling, you were right to not give her a second chance.

Littlepurpleprincess · 17/05/2009 15:02

Thanks, was worried I had over reacted but I had that gut feeling.

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missymoo2411 · 17/05/2009 15:32

nice one i wish i had done this when i first started as i was in the same boat but i didnt and was messed around and she ended up owing me money and she also stole from me lond story. so good for u im lucky now i have great mums n kids and am much stronger from the experience

underpaidandoverworked · 17/05/2009 17:16

Good for you . Knowing what I know now, like missy moo, wish I had done the same when I first started instead of being 'desperate' for business and being taken for granted . No more - if they mess you around before they sign the contract, imagine what it would be like once she had..... .

Littlepurpleprincess · 18/05/2009 08:11

Sounds like you didn't have a good time of it.

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JenniPenni · 18/05/2009 08:57

Always go with your gut feel. If you think they might be troublesome then leave well alone. You see them everyday and this can cause a LOT of stress.

Numberfour · 18/05/2009 09:34

i agree that you did the right thing!

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