i'd like some opinions please. including, if appropriate, that it is none of my business, and i should butt out.
the children are in my childresn school, and i am friends/acquaintances with their mother. but was and still am good friends with their nanny, who has just finished working with them. the new nanny has now been working with them for three weeks, and i have noticed that she is always on the phone. they walk a lot, and the entire walk, she seems to be chattingon the phone, rather than to the three year old walking paitentlybeside her, holidng onto th e buggy.
also,i have noticed that on the walk back, all three kids seem to be running at least a mile in front of her, including the three year old.
my friend, their old nanny would not have done this. am i feeling excessive loyalty to my friend. or is this innapropriate? should i say something to the kdis mom? or keep my mouth shut, and mind my own business?