Hi ladies - twins due beginning of June, dd. will be 2.9, DH works away at least 2 nights a week and we don't have any family nearby. So, I'm trying to work out what help would be best to try and keep me sane . I had thought about a post natal doula for the first 6 weeks or so but just wondering if I end up with a c-section for example I'd need more support and whether some kind of maternity nurse would be better (though for some reason that idea terrifies me - probably coz a friend had a couple of really bad experiences). Would be grateful for people's views experiences. Don't even have a cleaner at the mo which is something else I'm about to rectify as I can't see my feet let along a dustpan...