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Nannies: market rates (bit controversial)

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Tanzie · 10/04/2005 19:35

Having read on another thread ("Paying Nannies when sick") gripes from UK nannies about jobs going to girls from accession countries who will work for less, (and do more in the way of housework), is this not just pushing the market rate down for qualified/experienced nannies?

I am not in UK, but I would look at it as providing more affordable childcare, provided you can find someone trustworthy and reliable. I lived in UK briefly about 4 years ago and a nanny friend of mine was earning GBP 25,000 and got a flat thrown in with it. This is more than I was earning at the time and could never have afforded this sort of money for someone to look after my children.

I am not suggesting slave labour from Central European girls, or paying them an au pair's "pocket money" for what is essentially a nanny job, but paying them a reasonable wage and providing free accommodation means that a lot of people, who could not afford a nanny or nursery fees, will probably be able to get back to work.

Of course, there will always be those who want a Norland nanny and can afford one, but it seems to me that your average Mum would welcome these Central Europeans with open arms...

I'll run and hide now...

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wheresmyfroggy · 12/04/2005 23:09

what a foolish thing to say So many of you say you would go nuts if you were stuck at home all day with Children, SO WHY DID YOU BOTHER TO HAVE THEM IN THE 1ST PLACE!!!

You would be jobless and potless if people didnt go back to work or choose not to stay home............talk about bite the hand that feeds you ...........

Gwenick · 12/04/2005 23:09

better thank shrinks - they're physic - can see into our homes and see how 'awful' our family life is

BTW - DS2 (16 1/2months) now sits 'at the table' (Ie on dining room chair LOL) with us and last two nights we've sat down and had our first proper 'family' meals

Lisa2 · 12/04/2005 23:10

In my nanny job i am not expected to do much apart from obviously look after the children and nursery duties but i unload the dishwasher every day, sort the bins out and other bits and bobs. it is not asked of me but i like to do what i can to help out.

ootslooJ · 12/04/2005 23:10

"I cant have a "lazy day" like a SAHM can,"

wait for the cruise missiles

Gwenick · 12/04/2005 23:11

lol JT - what IS a lazy day????? None round here with my 2 pre-schoolers LOL

hunkersneakymunker · 12/04/2005 23:11

Dishwashers seem to feature strongly in people's lives.

Ameriscot2005 · 12/04/2005 23:12

Slacking off loading the dishwasher means twice a day instead of three times for me.

ScotsNanny · 12/04/2005 23:13

My written refs are just fab thanks!

No, I am not biting the hand that feeds me, just letting you lot know that your not so perfect either.

We ALL have it tough, Mums, Dads and Nannies.

ootslooJ · 12/04/2005 23:13

back breaking work loading the dishwasher and then you have to unload it again when its finishes

ootslooJ · 12/04/2005 23:13

not perfect? moi? you obviously don't know me!

hunkersneakymunker · 12/04/2005 23:13

What's a dishwasher?

skeptic · 12/04/2005 23:14

Agree, unloading is the worst part. Still, can sometimes co-opt a child into doing it.

Beetroot · 12/04/2005 23:14

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CountessDracula · 12/04/2005 23:14

Pennylane I'm sorry, but:

"Also will they know when to correct words/grammar?"

should only be asked by someone who can punctuate and spell which you clearly can't

skeptic · 12/04/2005 23:14

A 13-year old, HSM.

Lisa2 · 12/04/2005 23:15

i enjoy sorting the dishwasher out. I take advantage of it at work as i dont have one at home.
Im the dishwasher there.... literally!

Gwenick · 12/04/2005 23:16

oh definitely co-opt children to do it, even if your the nanny - want to give them 'life skills' to hey

skeptic · 12/04/2005 23:16

You take your dirty dishes to your place of work, Lisa?

Ameriscot2005 · 12/04/2005 23:17

LOL, another incriminating post disappears from NJ

Lisa2 · 12/04/2005 23:17

As i said, i am the dishwasher at home so no i dont bring them to work, i do them at home!!!

wheresmyfroggy · 12/04/2005 23:18

posts are disappearing on nj thread !!!!

Gwenick · 12/04/2005 23:18

ooo yes - but not before I got a quote from it

wheresmyfroggy · 12/04/2005 23:19

Whoops

skeptic · 12/04/2005 23:20

Sneaky, Gwenick!

ootslooJ · 12/04/2005 23:20

what posts have been deleted?

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