ok we have had our first au pair and feel we must be really off the mark.. we live in brisbane and i need and ap to look after ds whilst i am at work and drop dd off at school and collect her, generally only 3 shifts a week as when dh is home on a weekened he looks after the small people. they get total full board, can buy what they want at the supermarket... use of their own car with fuel provided and a mobile pre paid with credit, use of house phone for international and national cxalles and im happy for them to have a 2nd job around my shift hours... on top we pay $140 au cash in hand. (aus tax system is 40% on everything for tourists) so about70 gbp a week. am i mad? last au pair said not enough money for her makeup and social life! suggestions.. ps i would by supermarket make up!!!!!