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I LOVE MY JOB!!!

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Chatkins · 21/11/2008 20:22

After all the moaning and whinging and cm bashing that has gone on of late, I just wanted to share (probably with only myself, as no one ever answers my threads !) how much I love my job.

Today I had my lovely new assistant working with me (my dear sister), and three mindees, aged 3, 3, and nearly 2, plus my ds aged 18 months. One was having his second settling in session, and for the second time was totally fine with mum leaving him, so long as he was surrounded by trains !

Its such a confidence boost that a child feels comfortable and secure with you like this, so that was good. They all played together, shared, took turns and spoke nicely to each other (it does sink in eventually !), which again, was SOOOO rewarding and lovely, and my sister was beaming, saying she couldn't believe how lovely they all were.

The new one came out of his shell and came up to the table to join in snack time, then play-do, and was more chatty and lively than last time, again, really lovely to see.

My other two mindees were their normal chatty, bubby, inquisitive little selves, and I got lots of impromptu hugs and cuddles, (particularly lovely from one who is not as naturally cuddly), and meanwhile my ds was as chilled and cool as normal, quite happy ton share his home, all the toys, and me with his little mates.

My sister was impressed with all of them, which made me feel very chuffed and proud of them, and despite all the endless paperwork, the £25 I just spend developing photos of our activities to update EYFS files, the fact I sometimes get paid late or in dribs and drabs, my aching back from pushing doubke buggy and buggy board combo, and the list of things to be done that never ever ends, I have a constant urge to improve myself and my practice, and I can happily say that I would not want to do any other job ever.

Just wanted to share my feelings with any parents out there worried about using cms, for whatever reason, or to people thinking of giving up being a cm, or thinking of becoming one, I LOVE IT !

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Chatkins · 21/11/2008 20:51

do you ever read a thread, think, o no too boring/controversial/long etc and duck straight back out again ?

If you do I think it'd be cool to leave a kind of tally ie, been here, didn't wanna comment, seeya !

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mumsanutter · 21/11/2008 20:55

Glad your having a good time at the moment.

I love my little mindee (2yrs) and he is comfortable enough here to treat it like home which is nice as well, its also cool cos he hasn't screamed when mum has dropped him off this week and this is brill considering that he has been with mum for 1 1/2 weeks and also seen nanny and grandad.

Chatkins · 21/11/2008 20:58

ahh thank you for sharing mumsanutter !

Thanks for sharing your happy-cm story, and thanks for answering thread.

I think its a great job, very under-rated and under-appreciated, and when there is a bad-cm-story-worry, it lets us all down. Most cms I know feel the way I do.

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SpinningEm · 21/11/2008 20:58

I love my CM big time - she is a star & takes great interest in my dd3!

funnypeculiar · 21/11/2008 20:59

lovely to hear!

Chatkins · 21/11/2008 21:01

Thankyou spinningEm and funnypeculiar !
I am counting now, think this is the most replies I've ever had to one of my random mundane threads !

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TLC123 · 21/11/2008 21:33

I'm a lurker but had to reply to your post as it was so lovely and postive, glad you are enjoying cm so much, I love my job............well most of the time!

Chatkins · 21/11/2008 21:36

thanks tlc123, what do you do ?

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funnypeculiar · 21/11/2008 21:37
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TLC123 · 21/11/2008 21:41

I'm a cm too (for my sins) have been for five years, I enjoy it on the whole and I actually quite enjoy all the paperwork

Dominion · 21/11/2008 21:41

Great to read.There is nothing better for a parent (in childcare terms) to know that the minder loves spending time with their child.

Ds started a new nursery in August, he has never been happier, and I am sure it is because the staff have such fun, and you can really see that they enjoy their jobs, they enjoy the children, and it makes me so happy to know that my son is happy and having a good time.

Chatkins · 21/11/2008 21:43

aha, tlc, you are like me then ! Although it is endless, I too quite enjoy it, I take a pride in it, and think it does help me along. Makes me feel more professional ! Was a stayathomemum for nearly 2 yrs, then became a cm, been nearlyb 3 yrs now. Used to stack shelves in asda, so to me, this lovely privileged job is a blessing.

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Chatkins · 21/11/2008 21:44

Thats great, Dominion, it makes all the difference to a nursery/cm, if the staff are truly happy and in the right job for them.
IMO a parent is placing such trust in you with their child, the most precious thing to them, how could anyone do it if they didn't truly love it ?

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Dominion · 21/11/2008 21:48

In this nursery, one of the key staff has been there 13 years, the other 11 years, one has been 5 years, and another one 2 years. They all have gelled really well, and they are always planning fun outings, and little parties, and events, such as glass paintings on jam jars to make lanters, and go for a walk in the park with lanters lit (when dark), magic things for little people!

Dominion · 21/11/2008 21:48

lantern not lanter

SwazzleSticks · 21/11/2008 21:49

Chatkins - my DD loves her CM too and i count my blessings every day that there are such fab and lovely people opening up their hearts and homes to our little ones. I think 'you' (CM's/nurseries) often get a bad press when there are many caring minders such as yourself . I also admire you because i couldn't do it

TLC123 · 21/11/2008 21:49

I worked on the deli at tesco, (anythings better than that)Its just time I need more of, I'm also doing a degree and an accredition award as well as being mum to three! Mindees are great though my 15m old mindee has started to talk loads this week, shes so sweet.

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