We have decided to get an au pair when I start back at work. A friend has just approached me to ask if we would consider employing her nanny. She presently works in the day for my friend and is a housekeeper for her elderly relatives in the mornings and evenings. She was living in but due to a sudden deterioration in health they have sacked her to get nursing care in instead. She is therefore going to be losing half her present income and her accommodation.
We would be delighted to have her work for us but were planning to pay her au pair pocket money of £90 (inc £15 worth of travel card). She is 44 so does not fit into the au pair definition. However between me and my friend her total salary will be £340 a week so in line with a live in nanny's salary. My friend is going to pay NI and tax on her contribution so that she can sponsor her for a visa. I was not planning on doing that.
In September we would hope she could do more hours for us and I would increase her pay and presumably then would have to pay tax and NI.
So, do you think that's all above board?
Thank you wise mumsnetters.