I have a mindee who has a VERY over active imagination..he can be very specific and at times i KNOW for a fact NONE of what he's saying si trues, other times ive spoken to pareents and told them and theyve been shocked and said no, not true at all!
Anyway, this mindee's behaviour has been getting worse at home, but fine here until yesterday when he bit one of the baby mindees and then after long talks and even his teacher speaking to him, he hit the same mindee in face at home time when both me and mum were there and adamently denied it!
Now mum gave me a list of things he's been saying last night, both of which relating to things that happend at school involving noe girl in particular (mum thinks this is the bad influence) and while chatting i said that its hard as we know how vivid his imagination can be, like when he told mum at pick up that i had just pushed him..thankfully mum was stood at open door at time and saw that nothing hapepnd, however, she has said that she has wrote this down as one of the things he has been coming out with..he also said (mum still there at time) that i nipped him at home time..now im getting fed up and very concerned about the things he's saying and doing and the fact it is now being recorded, im wondering what to make of it..i know mindee fabricates or totally makes things up and im sure mum does too but as you will know as a cm, you're left wide open for horrible allegations, so i need to 'cover my back' so to speak!
i was thinking i should set up a file myself including these things and put in anything like this that he says/does, even the odd little stories he comes out with which i know are not true, to show how imaginative he can be!
Has anyone had something like this happen and what did/would you do?
I do have good relationship with mum, so not overly worried, but AM worried at what he's going to do/say next, he seems quite angry for his age and seems to know what to say to 'get attention'??