I have a works credit card which i put all expenses on, ie petrol, any food shopping, swimming,soft play area, trips to farm etc - so i dont actually have a budget as such BUT i would never take the piss out of it either - i keep all receipts and put in pot, but as it is jammed packed, assume mb and db never looks at it - he did say at the beginning that not to worry about receipts as it will obviously all show on card statement, and as long as his children are safe and well cared for, he trusts me with their lives then he trusts me with his money but i like to keep them just incase
i do have a cash kitty but use it for small things like cup of tea at play centre, car park fees (so exp where we are 80p 30mins!!)
I have asked mb for extra cash next week as first week of summer hols, and she said no problem, she will prob give me £20 and again when we are at farm and swimming, will put costs on credit card
my family have never queried what i spend or how i spend it, and obv can see where every penny goes on statement
i do think a monthy cash budget is good, then nanny can decide how to spend the money, rather than keep asking for more,but as it is holidays, then maybe an extra top up is good
have just re read my reply, and sorry for woffling