Hi Sunnyshine - I hope that as the child is 4 they will quite clued up on how to deal with the allergy! Get them to talk about it openly with all the other children in the setting. My older ones are very supportive of the child with allergies and know what they can and cannot have.
For all meals I have to say I tend to cook from scratch and do simply favourites - eg roasts, shepherds pie, spaghetti bolognese, rice based dishes, baked potatoes with various fillings, salmon & veg etc. I would ask the child and her Mum what she likes to eat as a starting point and take it from there. Most recipes with milk can usually be adapted by using dairy free margarine and soya milk. The egg element is the more difficult part.
Here are some favourite baking recipes in my house which all the kids will eat, allergic or not! There are also some good cake recipes at www.veganfamily.co.uk - look on the recipe page link under cakes & puddings. I can highly recommend the banana muffins, which make excellent mini-muffins and freeze extremely well,
Chocolate Biscuit Cake (taken and adapted from "Sainsbury's Chocolate Cooking"
3oz 'safe' margarine (I use Tomor block)
2 Tbsps golden syrup
1 Tbsp soft brown sugar
1 Tbsp cocoa powder 8oz "safe" digestive biscuits, crushed
2oz raisins (optional) Place the first 4 ingredients in a pan and heat gently until the margarine has melted (or alternatively cook in a bowl in the microwave on full power for 2 minutes, stirring once). Stir in the biscuit crumbs and raisins if using and press the mixure into a greased tin. Chill in the fridge until firm then cut into wedges.
Rice Krispie Squares (unknown origin - from my Mum!)
4oz 'safe' margarine
half cup sugar
4oz chopped dates
3oz rice krispies
plain chocolate to cover (I use Kinnerton dairy & egg free one)
Melt margarine in pan. Stir in sugar and dates and cook for 5 minutes. Add rice krispies. Press the mixture into a greased tin and cool. Cover with melted chocolate and cut into squares when set.
West County Apple Cake (unknown origin - from my Gran!)
8oz self raising flour
8oz finely chopped or grated apple
4oz granulated sugar
4oz margarine
2oz currants
soya milk
Sieve flour into a bowl and rub in the margarine. Stir in the sugar, raisins and apple. Mix with a little soya milk to a fairly stiff dough. Grease and line the bottom of a flat baking tin (approx 10 x 20 cms) and spread the mixture evenly. Bake at 200c for 30 minutes. Dredge with brown sugar, cool and cut into slices.
Banana & Date Cake (taken from The Vegan Cookbook - Wakeman & Baskerville)
10 oz flour
1 tbs baking powder
6 oz chopped dates
3 ripe bananas (the riper the better!)
3 tsp vanilla essence
125ml soya milk
4 oz margarine
Sieve the flour and baking powder into a bowl and mix in the dates. Mash the bananas, vanilla essence and soya milk together until thoroughly combined and set aside. Melt the margarine, stir into the flour and then add the banana mixture. (A little extra soya milk may be necessary to get the right consistency) Pour into a greased and lined 2 pint loaf tin or 6 inch round cake tin and bake in the middle of a warm oven (160c, gas mark 3) for approx 1 hour or a knife inserted in the centre comes out cleanly. Allow to cool before removing from the tin.