On Wednesday it was my day off. She was in her garden for about 2 hours, cutting grasss, digging, planting etc. No sign of the 2 under 5's she minds. I stood on the back step to speak to her and noticed (because of the way the living room windows are i can see into hers) the 2 under 5s in high chairs inf ront of the TV!.
Then yesterday morning from 9.15 until 10am her and 2 of her friends were in the back garden smoking and having coffee and chatting, and I could hear the toddler crying and shouting, and periodically she would go in and see him.
I just feel really annoyed, she could have cut her grass at the weekend