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Nursery vs childminder? Advice wanted pls xx

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Annie2222 · 12/08/2024 21:18

Hi all, was hoping for some advice on nurseries vs childminders for a 12 month old. We are so undecided! We like the structure, safety aspects and checks and balances of a nursery but we’re worried about staff turnover, lack of connection between staff and the kids, and illness. We do like the idea of a childminder who’d bond with our baby and it’s a smaller, more intimate setting etc, but find it hard to understand how one childminder could easily manage 4 young babies alone? Like how does it work? I know this is the legal ratio but in nurseries when there are multiple staff it seems more manageable?!

Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated! First time mum and highly anxious about the whole thing 😕 thank you!

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DinnaeFashYersel · 23/08/2024 09:53

I personally preferred a CM when they were younger but moved to nursery at 3.

Whoosie · 23/08/2024 11:01

Surelyitscoffeetime · 22/08/2024 23:22

We used both and much preferred a nursery. I found it very hard not knowing where my DC was when he was with the CM. I always worried that if something happened, there would be no way of knowing where they were and that he was my child.

To be honest, I mention to parents where we will be going in the day. I also carry emergency cards with photos so if ever I was in an accident they could contact parents. It’s also on my emergency screen on my phone that the children who are with me may not be my own and it refers them to the contact cards. My partner and my older children know where my emergency cards are located should an emergency arise. I have parents full permissions to store these cards due to GDPR and they’re more than happy for me to carry them with me.

Surelyitscoffeetime · 23/08/2024 12:56

Whoosie · 23/08/2024 11:01

To be honest, I mention to parents where we will be going in the day. I also carry emergency cards with photos so if ever I was in an accident they could contact parents. It’s also on my emergency screen on my phone that the children who are with me may not be my own and it refers them to the contact cards. My partner and my older children know where my emergency cards are located should an emergency arise. I have parents full permissions to store these cards due to GDPR and they’re more than happy for me to carry them with me.

That would have definitely been reassuring for me. Sadly our child minder didn’t do anything like that.

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