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HELP!!! 7 month old displaying signs of autism or not?!!

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Mumof3bb1 · 27/04/2024 15:50

Hi,

This is my first post on here, always reading others posts, but I feel like I need some answers about my DS milestones/progress.

i’lll start with the positives so he’s 7 months and ten days and can-

Sit up unaided but only when I put him into the sitting position.

eye contact is okay will look at you but not great.

can reach out arms when I go to pick him
up.

Sleeps relatively well always, but cannot roll over only has a handful of times from belly to back, never back to belly.

Can track objects and follows people if they leave or come into the room.

Will smile at us and occasionally laugh but not a great deal. Enjoys peekaboo.

can shuffle on his tummy but backwards.
lifts feet and brings to mouth.

babbling/screeching sometimes started grunting more and tensing his whole body when laying down on back which is worrying.

OKAYYYY NOW THE NEGATIVES:

hasn’t rolled back to belly

no interest in toys won’t reach out for them himself when he’s sitting up or on tummy time, will reach out for them when on his playmat on his back and if we hand him a toy he reaches for it but goes straight into his mouth.

constantly wants to put everything into mouth.

opens and closes hand throughout the day and stares at it for a few seconds each time.

doesnt really look when we call him think he turns more to the sound not his name.

scratches surfaces not constantly but does.

when sitting on sofa or floor constantly kicking his legs like rubbing his feet together.

arms and legs always moving

wont imitate or copy sounds or if we sing to him he won’t babble along.

not clapping
won’t really cry if he’s hungry
constantly looking up at lights or ceiling even when outside looks up at trees.
has no separation anxiety.
doesn’t cry when he wakes up.
no babbling mama or dada
will look everywhere but me when he’s outside in his pram

wont attempt to hold his own bottle

looking for any help and advice please?

one very concerned mum!

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jannier · 27/04/2024 21:51

All sounds pretty normal so far

ZoChan · 27/04/2024 22:15

Your baby also has four big people around him, doing stuff for him. Whereas your girls didn't. He has been born into a different family than your firstborn was, so he will react and develop differently too. If you're very concerned, contact your healthy child practitioner

Mumof3bb1 · 27/04/2024 22:18

ZoChan · 27/04/2024 22:15

Your baby also has four big people around him, doing stuff for him. Whereas your girls didn't. He has been born into a different family than your firstborn was, so he will react and develop differently too. If you're very concerned, contact your healthy child practitioner

This actually makes a lot of sense, thank you!

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mondaytosunday · 27/04/2024 22:29

My son never crawled. He eventually figured out rolling and that's what he did and he didn't walk independently til he was 18 months (he's a fitness instructor now so obviously didn't affect his physical abilities). All babies are fascinated by their hands - it's like 'what's that? Wow I can make it move'! As stated above putting things in their mouths is totally normal -.it's why you never leave small things around. Waggling their arms and legs also totally normal.
I don't think you should ever consider a baby 'lazy'.
My DD didn't like toys much. A couple stuffed animals.
Don't compare one child with the next. There going to be a very wide range when kids hit certain milestones. If concerned go to a clinic if you don't have a HV. Ask them.

Blondeshavemorefun · 27/04/2024 23:55

I'm a mn /was a nanny for 20yrs and many of the babies I've looked after haven't rolled

Mini blondes went backwards crawling for think 2w. Drove me insane as she kept getting stuck in corners 😂

Babies always put things on their mouths. How they explore

Agree with the poster who said about 4 older people around him

Are you worried about his sight or hearing ?

Katela18 · 28/04/2024 08:05

ZoChan · 27/04/2024 22:15

Your baby also has four big people around him, doing stuff for him. Whereas your girls didn't. He has been born into a different family than your firstborn was, so he will react and develop differently too. If you're very concerned, contact your healthy child practitioner

This is like what it is....
My little brother was 'lazy' into terms of hitting milestones - but he had 3 older siblings who talked for him, gave him toys, held his bottle etc so he had no need to do it himself

Also, I myself had an older girl then a boy, I'd say my boy was way more 'physical' in terms of moving around lots but babbling, responding to name etc came later than with my girls. 7 months is way too early to be worrying about this

Mumof3bb1 · 28/04/2024 13:20

@Blondeshavemorefun thank you for your reply. He turns to sound and looks so I think sight and hearing is fine, as when I dangle something infront of him he follows it and tries to take it from me, but when say he’s on the floor on tummy time he won’t reach for his toys or when he’s sitting up and they are infront of him he won’t reach for them.

he also doesn’t care at looking at himself in the mirror will just look up and around I find he looks at the ceilings in each room/light fixtures maybe doesn’t help my house has a lot of black lights🙈

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Mumof3bb1 · 28/04/2024 13:23

@Katela18 thank you. I hope that is the case too, as he’s not clapping, pointing or even imitating anything we do. I read the 9 month checklist and it says if he can bang objects and he doesn’t they just go straight in his mouth and if he knocks things off his high chair by accident he doesn’t even care or realise 😞

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hookiewookie29 · 30/04/2024 07:47

He's only 7 months and everything he does sounds absolutely normal!
My daughter ( now 21 ) only ever rolled over once. She scared herself so much doing it,she cried for ages and never did it again! She was nearly 19 months before she walked. Not autistic, just did things differently!

Joleyne · 30/04/2024 15:06

Way too early to be talking about autism! Truly!
Please don't worry overmuch about those checklists. They're meant as indicators, not examinations and your baby boy sounds a darling!

LauderSyme · 30/04/2024 15:10

My son is diagnosed with high functioning autism, people agree he is severely affected. Absolutely nothing on your list resonates with me from his babyhood.

Mumof3bb1 · 30/04/2024 17:23

Thanks all for the reassurance I’m a mess atm @LauderSyme do you remember any things that stood out to you at 7/8 months?

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Mialeighx · 30/04/2024 17:45

I guess I always just ‘knew’ something was different while DD was very young.. but i wouldn’t think too much into it. I would wait until 1 year at least don’t worry yourself , sounds like usual baby behaviour all babies are different 🙂

Mumof3bb1 · 30/04/2024 17:49

@Mialeighx what sort of things did you notice that seemed off? Do any of my points listed show any similarities?

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Mialeighx · 30/04/2024 17:56

Mumof3bb1 · 30/04/2024 17:49

@Mialeighx what sort of things did you notice that seemed off? Do any of my points listed show any similarities?

Some parts yes- looking up at lights, trees.. but all babies do this too.
other parts are complete opposites- cried all the time, sleep was really bad, really bad separation anxiety, still made eye contact, still babbled and said mama and dada, clapped but all this regressed after 1 year old, so I really wouldn’t worry it sounds like he is just fine 😊 all babies do things at their own speed don’t worry honestly x

eatdrinkandbemerry · 30/04/2024 17:59

Nothing you mention are red flags he just sounds like a baby doing baby things 🤷‍♀️

CanaryCanary · 30/04/2024 18:00

You honestly cannot tell at that age. Both my boys are autistic but at 7 months were hitting all their milestones no problem. Keep a note of when he does different things, otherwise just wait and see, but at this stage it all sounds normal!

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 30/04/2024 18:16

Step away from Google, chuck out any milestones books and enjoy your baby.

Baby sounds completely average and normal.

You are just scaring yourself silly.

ineedtostopbeingdramaticfirst · 30/04/2024 18:28

I have a lot of experience working with asd kids and I'm autistic. I started to recognise signs in my ds when he was about 10m. He never babbled, his face had very little expression except when he was screaming which he did a lot. He didn't snuggle in. His sleep was awful.

But even then although I suspected, I waited Then when he still not talking and had same issues at 18 months I asked the hv to come and observe him.

7m is very early to be concerned and to be honest most of the things you are concerned about are not early signs. Babies change massively in the first year try to relax and don't compare.

jannier · 01/05/2024 13:43

Mumof3bb1 · 30/04/2024 17:49

@Mialeighx what sort of things did you notice that seemed off? Do any of my points listed show any similarities?

Everybody who's commented and knows about children's development has reassured you. Is there a reason for your anxiety like family history or PND?
Many things considered autistic traits in older children are a normal stage of development and it's only if the child doesn't move on as they grow it becomes notable. Your baby sounds to be doing exactly as they should.

Mumof3bb1 · 05/05/2024 19:17

@CanaryCanary what sort of things would you have noticed if you looked back at when they were 7/8 months?

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CanaryCanary · 05/05/2024 19:29

@Mumof3bb1 - at 7 months both my boys were typical babies, meeting all milestones and there were no concerns at all. They are both diagnosed autistic. You honestly just cannot tell at 7 months.

I mean this kindly: have you considered speaking to your GP about your anxiety?

Mumof3bb1 · 05/05/2024 19:33

CanaryCanary · 05/05/2024 19:29

@Mumof3bb1 - at 7 months both my boys were typical babies, meeting all milestones and there were no concerns at all. They are both diagnosed autistic. You honestly just cannot tell at 7 months.

I mean this kindly: have you considered speaking to your GP about your anxiety?

Hi,

I know I’m just a worry wart and keep looking for things, I just find he’s awfully fidgety and his arms/legs are flailing which again could be normal and may also not be🙈

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PurpleBugz · 05/05/2024 19:45

I knew my child was autistic at that age because he didn't have a social smile and he didn't watch me move around the room/leave the room. He just lay there neither happy nor sad and didn't really cry to be fed/changed etc it was up to me to push him to eat. He just started at lights/moving things and didn't notice people. Nothing you describe screams autistic to me. But then everyone told me it was too young to know with my son now he's 7 and still has no school place as nowhere can meet need because all through early years I was fobbed off as it's too early to tell. For this reason I don't like to say don't worry about because if there is something it's only being pushy as a parent that will get your child needs acknowledgment let alone support

AuntMarch · 05/05/2024 19:53

Nothing on your "negatives" list sounds out of the ordinary to me either.

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