My ex did a a lot of damage last year and blamed me and accused me of being and alcoholic. He said the kids wanted 50/50 care which wasn't the case. Since this, a world of hurt and turmoil has happened. My son is going 50/50 (against our court order). Our daughter then refused for months. I managed to get her to go again but she refuses midweek over nights now (again not in our order).
She is recording her and his car journeys home and it's sickening. He is pressuring her to stay with him and say that he's busy earlier so he want the bedtime to have special time.
In this time and the fact that he has told the kids he will never speak to me again, I received and email this morning from him. He was asking me to swap a weekend so he could go to a golfing weekend on Easter weekend (his weekend).
Am I over thinking or is he taking the totally biscuit? Advice gratefully appreciated from both sides please as it always helps. Thank you