I earn over 100k so have always accepted I won't be eligible for the 30 free hours. I have two in childcare so it's costly. I'm the main earner so I pay eeeeeverything, childcare is crippling!
A friend of mine (mid 40s, NHS nurse) has a husband who is a fairly experienced hospital consultant. North West based. Surely (surely!?) he'd be over 100k too, or either way combined they'll be on >£100k. I don't know how many times she's told me "oh don't worry, you'll be like us soon and benefit from the 30 free hours, it'll transform your life!" type of thing. I've always just smiled and never been that type to say "well actually I'm over the salary threshold" but how might they have been claiming this?! I mean I don't know her DH is over £100k for sure, but he's mid 40s, consultant, works FT. I'd be amazed if they're not!