Hi everyone. hoping for some advice / reassurance!
My 2yr old has been at her current childminder 2 days a week for 1 year and she’s very settled there. Unfortunately the childminder is retiring and so we are having to look for alternative care and I’m feeling anxious about making the right decision for her.
We have the option of a very local childminder who seems very nice yet possibly not as experienced (she’s been a nanny for the last two years however). She can look after my daughter for the same days as before with the same 2 younger boys that my daughter already attends the childminder with. However I’m planning when she is three that she will go to a nursery/preschool setting so I’m wondering if I should just make that transition now rather than in a years time, or half a years time. Will the transition be even harder when she’s 2.5/3? Or will she be more ready for it being a little older? She’s quite independent and confident but not super outgoing in busy settings.
The nursery is the only one we can find space in at the moment - it’s Montessori and has a very good reputation. My reservations for the nursery are that it’s less convenient as a fair bit further away (ie driving / cycling), more expensive and the days / hours they have avail. aren’t as good but we could make it work. I’m also worried that she could struggle to settle there and that the childminder would be a much gentler transition for the time being. We also really like the childminding setting in general and weren’t planning to move her from her current childminder until she was around three anyway.
I guess my reservations for the childminder are that she might be missing out on interaction with children her age and older and that she might thrive in a bigger setting and she wouldn’t need to make another transition again at a later date (6 months / 1 year time).
We would need to make the change at some point as the childminder doesn’t offer 15/30 hours funding for 3 year olds so not an option to stay with the new childminder until school age.
Wondering what other people might do in this situation? I do feel I might be overthinking it somewhat, I’m just struggling to make the right choice for her!
Thanks in advance