I've been inspired to write this by reading my CM's recent Ofsted report.
Our CM is brilliant. She is dedicated and everything you would want in the person minding your child. She has passed on skills, manners, taught safety issues and kept my DD safe and happy for the past 13 months. My DD has NEVER said she doesn't want to go to her and sometimes asks to go to the CMs on the weekend when she is plainly bored of her parents!
The Ofsted report graded her as GOOD in all areas and I congratulated her on this when I dropped DD of this morning. However, to improve on this GOOD grading, all of the OFSTED recommendations were about increased paper based communication with the parents - about the children's activities and progress and nothing about the actual care given to the children.
I have chosen a child minder over any other form of care as I like the personal relationship you develop with them. I think it is my responsibility to ask her the questions I want to about my DDs day with her. I usually only ask her if DD's had a nap or how good she has been at staying dry today. I don't really ask about every meal etc as I feel that I know CM provides a varied, nutritious meal & snacks but I don't need to know every detail. I feel like the time she spends with my DD is her time with her, she doesn't need me asking endless questions! It's a sense of I trust her to look after my DD and therefore I hand her over to her for the day, I don't need a report on what went on. If I want to know of course I feel like I can ask and she always mentions anything important that comes up.
My point is, that I feel that the current policy is for CMs to behave more like nurseries than CMs with respect to the level of info given to parents. I feel this is unfair given that most of her time is taken up with providing a higher ratio of care to her mindees, without the support of a cleaner, a kitchen doing the meals, and office staff writing up these endless menus and day reports.
When I mentioned this to my CM she responded that it was all set to get worse in September with some new measures that are coming in . I assume these are the new Keystage targets she will have to satisfy she is 'teaching' our children.
Does anyone else find this worrying? I would rather she got on with the undisputed great job she was doing for our kids and was recognised for that. If I wanted DD to go to a nursery and have structured learning I'd send her to one. I welcome the registering of CMs, and all of the checks and safety issues that are covered by this, but I think we are in danger of making her job totally prescribed. There is little opportunity for the greater flexibility that a CMs care should be able to offer.
Your thoughts?
Who can I lobby about this?