Hi mums, looking for childcare advice here. I’m self employed and while I have a lot of my work automated (I sell products online and a warehouse packs up orders for me), there are parts of the business that need my time, such as marketing and admin. Not on a timely, day-to-day basis necessarily, but bits and pieces that do need doing at some point.
I have a 10-month-old, and while I love that I have the freedom in my work to look after him as much as I can without the strain of a full-time job, I could really do with more time to get the ‘should-do’ stuff done that I can’t fit in during nap time. I desperately want to keep my baby’s routine as close to home life as possible, avoiding compromising on nap quality, but am really struggling to find something out there that works. People are mostly telling me that child minders are what I should be looking at, but how flexible are they? I really think I’m only looking for 10 hours a week, but does that sort of care exist? We have no grandparents that are local otherwise I can see that being the ideal option.
I know it’s something a lot of people need to go through, accepting that someone you don’t know will be looking after your child, but the nature of my work isn’t necessarily forcing me into that decision in the same way that full time work would. So it’s really tearing me apart right now.
What I’d like to know is, what sort of childcare am I looking for, and what are the compromises that I need to get my head round?