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Anyone had a NWOC (nanny with own child)?

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Margot2017 · 15/08/2022 20:18

Our nanny has been on mat leave and wants to bring her baby to work for the first year after she returns. We are willing to try this, but only if we can find insurance that would cover accidental injury to her child (we are her employer and would be liable if anything happened in our home). Neither our homeowner’s insurance nor our employer’s liability insurance will cover this (I asked). Has anyone done this and found coverage that would apply to an employee’s child? Any suggestions gratefully received!

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Blondeshavemorefun · 20/08/2022 15:31

@nannynick who would you advise

nannynick · 20/08/2022 16:08

No insurance cover for that to my knowledge.

sayless · 20/08/2022 16:22

I was a nanny who took my child

DD was 3 and turned 4 in the year I did it.

I was nanny to two children, one the same age as DD and one a year younger.

It was a nightmare. The kids had developmental delay (due to lazy parenting - mum didn't want to potty train incase they peed on the carpet. So they never came out of nappies. She wanted me to train them but they weren't allowed accidents. She would put a dummy in their mouth if they ever made any kind of noise, even at 4 years old. Didn't eat properly and didn't have the norms you'd expect, for example they'd panic and cry if they had a runny nose as didn't know to get or ask for a tissue. Loads more of examples and entirely NOT the kids faults)

Anyway DD was very well behaved, the parents thought she was a lot older due to the difference in her development, I tried to explain the typical development stages but parents not interested.

The kids couldn't share and were violent to each other and DD quite badly. They were clearly desperate for their parents attention but never received it. They would be sat with a dummy in their mouth and an iPad while parents did what they wanted. 24/7.

I quit as I wasn't able to make any positive impact due to how restrictive the parents were and I felt the kids were suffering. I advised them to put the kids into a nursery. They did, and they thrived at nursery.

Sorry that turned into a massive rant!

JaggySplinter · 06/09/2022 13:46

I considered it when my DC were younger but didn't because of a few considerations: insurance - I couldn't find any; pay - my nanny still wanted the same pay but wasn't 100% there for my children as her's would be there too; risks - what if her attention needed to be divided between her child and mine, would she be able to put my child first if necessary?

Overall, it wasn't worth it for me.

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