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Terrible Bullies at Kings Camp!

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kasennorarara · 06/08/2022 00:18

Can you imagine the fear of a 5-year-old new boy? Suddenly being locked in a narrow toilet, far away from the noisy playing hall, crying long time but nobody can hear him? And the staff even wasn’t aware at all, ‘he got locked just a few minutes’, looks like a common bully in UK which is normal… Really?

No, never!

I just wanted to share the terrible accidents happening on my 5-year-old boy when he attended Kings Camp this summer. Bullies can never be tolerated. Hope all parents can see this and avoid the same pain.

My 5-year-old boy attended the summer session of Kings Camp. He is just new to UK, very shy and quiet. We hope to make the little boy like UK and adapt to the coming P1 by camping, but on the first day with Kings Camp he got bullied. Some older children stamped on his clothes and maliciously pinched his face every now and then, making him too scared to speak out. We reported to the staff but they just said they ‘didn’t see that’ and all these continued happening in the following every day.

On Wet Wednesday, an event when children playing water guns, this camp just didn’t have sufficient guns so older children had guns and youngers became targets. My poor boy just stood there without any protection or place to hide, being shot by older children around him for over one hour and get overwhelmingly wet. Again, when we confront the staff he just ‘didn’t see that’. My boy now doesn’t like water fun anymore, scared that he would only become target of bullets!

The most horrible thing is that he was locked in toilet by some older children intentionally from outside, crying a long time until someone happened to go to toilet and found him. Kings Camp declared that under 8s will be supervised by staff member and have a buddy with them, but they actually didn’t follow that at all. They had a separate toilet outside the playing hall, the toilet is just normal size for adults with high and heavy doors, and they just let the wee one went alone. Again, they said they ‘didn’t see’ my boy out because they were ‘too busy’. When I complained this accident to one manager, she even didn’t care and said my boy was locked ‘just a few minutes’!

There was no CCTV so nobody can know how long he had been locked. What is so real is that my boy is so scared! Until now he doesn’t dare to go to toilet alone. We lodged formal complaint towards the institution but up until now all we got are various dodging explanations from their different staff. We haven’t even received any formal apology from them:

‘We are busy’.
‘I didn’t see it.’
‘The toilet door was locked from outside but must by someone not belonging to our camp’ but then ‘No one can enter to the building without camp’s permission’.
‘Someone locked the door but there was no CCTV so we didn’t know who did it’ but then ‘The toilet door was locked by your boy himself.’
‘He went to toilet himself. Nobody saw him out.’

Obviously, Kings Camp doesn’t provide sufficient staff or facilities as they declared. They promised a lot on their website and Ads but they don’t really follow. Children, especially younger ones, are just surviving by themselves. And the staff at Kings Camp are neither qualified nor experienced. Some of the staff don’t care about children at all. Many of the staff looked like part-time or students. They are no more than making money – less staff, less facilities, and more children.

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vaingina · 06/08/2022 01:19

It sounds horrific. I would never send a 5 year old child to a camp, especially when they are newly arrived. What made you think this was a good idea?

Sheepreallylikerichteabiscuits · 06/08/2022 01:22

vaingina · 06/08/2022 01:19

It sounds horrific. I would never send a 5 year old child to a camp, especially when they are newly arrived. What made you think this was a good idea?

People in the UK and many if not all other countries sent their children into various forms of childcare from say 6 months old upwards. These parents doing this and their child then being bullied is not their fault.

vaingina · 06/08/2022 05:31

I did mean to say to a camp where most of the children would be much older,
but fair point.

starpatch · 06/08/2022 05:34

Very sorry to hear this. Thanks for warning other parents.

garlictwist · 06/08/2022 05:35

vaingina · 06/08/2022 01:19

It sounds horrific. I would never send a 5 year old child to a camp, especially when they are newly arrived. What made you think this was a good idea?

Kings camp is a day camp. I used to go as a kid in the summer holidays back in the 90s as my parents worked and I absolutely loved it.

So it's an entirely appropriate place to send a child (or it should be).

OP, your experience sounds awful. I am so sorry for you and your son and I think you have been very unlucky.

Endlesslypatient82 · 06/08/2022 05:45

Did this all happen on one day OP?

Bluehanger · 06/08/2022 05:55

Thank you. That does help sometimes. I really need more sleep but fretting about that will only make it worse eh.
Have a weekend alone now. Another one. But it's okay. Got to be eh!
Spent most of last weekend in the car but really need to try to stay here to get some of the mess sorted.

MumofSpud · 06/08/2022 06:16

Was this a day camp? Why did he return if the bullying started on Day 1 and you complained but nothing was done?

Endlesslypatient82 · 06/08/2022 06:18

Bluehanger · 06/08/2022 05:55

Thank you. That does help sometimes. I really need more sleep but fretting about that will only make it worse eh.
Have a weekend alone now. Another one. But it's okay. Got to be eh!
Spent most of last weekend in the car but really need to try to stay here to get some of the mess sorted.

Name change fail?

Endlesslypatient82 · 06/08/2022 06:19

Op

Clearly this didn’t happen on one day.

and yet you co tinier to drop your son there.

why?

kasennorarara · 06/08/2022 10:20

vaingina · 06/08/2022 01:19

It sounds horrific. I would never send a 5 year old child to a camp, especially when they are newly arrived. What made you think this was a good idea?

My son has very limited English but will start P1 soon. I can't find any position of nursery or pre-school available in busy summer. I wished to provide a relatively active and relaxed environment for him to adapt to English environment before his formal school so I booked Kings Camp, especially when they promised they have a special team for young children and that is separate from older ones.

Besides, I'm new to UK too. I don't have any family or friend here to look after my son when I have to work.

As this kind of institution exists here and is allowed by the regulation of UK, they should follow their standards and requirement to make sure children's safety, right? As long as we find someone breach of duty, we should speak out and prevent bully, shall we?

Hope you could understand my situation and help my voice heard. The staff of Kings Camp just ignored my complaint and even not said any sorry until now.

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kasennorarara · 06/08/2022 10:23

starpatch · 06/08/2022 05:34

Very sorry to hear this. Thanks for warning other parents.

Thank you for understanding me!

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kasennorarara · 06/08/2022 10:30

Sheepreallylikerichteabiscuits · 06/08/2022 01:22

People in the UK and many if not all other countries sent their children into various forms of childcare from say 6 months old upwards. These parents doing this and their child then being bullied is not their fault.

People do so probably because they are single, they don't have any other family or friend to help, they have to work...

Hope when hurts happened, we have more voice to prevent bully, push the childcare to follow the standards that they promised, push the regulation to be serious to the childcare, rather than blame the family that has been hurt.

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kasennorarara · 06/08/2022 10:46

MumofSpud · 06/08/2022 06:16

Was this a day camp? Why did he return if the bullying started on Day 1 and you complained but nothing was done?

1st day, being bullied by pinching faces. I talked to the staff at once, they promised that won't happen again.
3rd day, being shot by water gun. Before the event I asked if there is protection for young kids they said yes.
4th day, being locked in toilet. I talked to the manager seriously but still got a simple promise that's why I stop camping and speak out here.

Hope when hurts happened, we have more voice to prevent bully, push the childcare to follow the standards that they promised, and push the regulation to be serious to the childcare, rather than imagining what the family hurt was doing.

I would appreciate if you would share any methods to me to get the camp at least apologize. I'm new to UK too.

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Endlesslypatient82 · 06/08/2022 10:53

Who cares if they “apologise”. Means bugger all.

Was or your son who told you all this?

will you be returning him to the camp?

Endlesslypatient82 · 06/08/2022 10:56

How is your son’s English?

JanglyBeads · 06/08/2022 11:06

Any childcare will be approved by the local council. Maybe contact them?

Sheepreallylikerichteabiscuits · 06/08/2022 11:07

I believe KIngs Camp will be inspected/fall under Ofsted. If you feel they are not taking your complaints of bullying seriously you can report them.

In the first instance I would ask to see their policy on bullying and then explain to them where they have failed to follow their own policy. Then if you don't feel they are taking it seriously enough you could report to ofsted.

vaingina · 06/08/2022 12:26

I feel so sorry for your little boy. I would look for an environment where younger children only are in attendance.

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