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Lateness from parents driving me mad!

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Samthenanny · 16/06/2022 09:22

It’s pretty much every day, either 10 or 15 mins sometimes with a message to let me know and sometimes not.
one day a week a parent works from
home and more often than not I have to send a charge up so I can leave and that’s never on time either!
I work a long day 11hrs but the children are at school and I think the parents think ah it’s fine she’s had all day to herself kind of thing but that’s their choice!
1 parent will get home literally within seconds of my finishing time then won’t stop talking, giving me a list of things etc and I can be standing at the front door and it’ll just carry on.
I’ve asked to finish on time and I’ve sent a email which worked for a week and now we’re back to lateness.
I’m pregnant and all I want to do is get home at the end of the day as I’m shattered.
Apart from asking and sending emails what else can I do? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Blondeshavemorefun · 19/06/2022 23:51

Not sure why so many were confused with your post

obvious you are a nanny

anyway when they start chatting to say can we talk another Time as it’s past my contracted hours and I need to be somewhere - bye. Walk out door

what does contract say about overtime

if working at home at 2 mins before leave time. Knock on door with shoes and coat on. Say I’m off now. Kids downstairs reading / watching tv etx

do they know you are preg ?

Samthenanny · 20/06/2022 22:59

@Blondeshavemorefun

Ah thank you, does say nanny in my user name also.

overtime should be paid as it says in the contract which rarely happens these days. I think mainly because I don’t have children during the day (parents choice completely) parents think I don’t do much. It’s not the extra money, I’d just like to finish on time and get home.

oh yeah they know I’m pregnant, told them at 12 weeks and I’m now over 6 months and very obviously pregnant.

I’ve done the whole can’t talk now I’m finished, sending the kids up etc doesn’t seem to work unfortunately.

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Blondeshavemorefun · 21/06/2022 07:17

Maybe be blunter and say I need to go. See you tomorrow. Bye. And walk.

Thehop · 21/06/2022 12:57

I have an appointment to get to I need to leave on time.

every day.

JustOrderADoor · 24/10/2022 08:46

ChangedMyNamrButStillMe · 16/06/2022 09:24

I’m sorry but I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about

That's down to your poor comprehension, not the OP.

LemonDrizzles · 24/10/2022 08:48

Charge them by the minute. Make it high. Your time is valuable.

Give them one month notice about the charge.

Your time IS valuable!

underneaththeash · 25/10/2022 11:20

I thought your post was obvious too..
i’d have a conversation and say that you can see they’re struggling to get back for 6.45, maybe they should increase your hours to finish at 7 instead and then they aren’t having to rush?

Are you hoping to come back with your baby? (Or is it too long a day?)

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