I'm going back to work this week (p-t) and dh is going to be looking after our dd. He's just phoned to say that he's got a training course on one of the days I work at the end of February, and there are going to be another couple of days when he can't have the time off - perhaps about 5 days a year. I don't expect nurseries or childminders would be able to help me because of the sporadic nature of the days, and the small number. Any ideas on what I can do? I'm realising the limitations of our arrangement now, as these 'one off' situations are going to be quite stressful to manage.