I’ve got two daughters, 6 and 4. We get regular help from my mother in law so I can work but now the girls are getting a bit bigger and could be left with someone else I’m starting to find there are work or social events I’d like to go to. I used to ask my mum for help with this kind of one off thing but when I asked her recently she said no, she can’t cope as she’s getting older. Can anyone tell me what you do in these situations? It wouldn’t just be an evening babysitting, it might also be a school pick up, make dinner, stay for the evening. Would a babysitter do this kind of thing? Just keen to hear what other people do. I could ask my MIL but as she already helps for work I think extra days could seem a bit much. Obviously the alternate option is to stay home! But interested to hear what arrangements other families have for this kind of thing.